Hi, I'm new so your forgiveness is begged if I screw up how to do this. Daughter age 21 has had a lifetime of difficulty, I don't even want to say dual diagnoses, there are like five, ex and I (still amicable) are exhausted and broke. Endless hospitalizations, never keeps a job, wrecks housing we provide, loses everything, associates with bad people etc. The newest plan is to take a bus with nonfunctional felon boyfriend who has been sponging off us for ten months across the country to be homeless in California. Needless to say my brain will not stop running. I am terrified. Will she survive? How do I? I know all about naranon and Buddhism and letting go, everyone in my life either gets angry at my total psychic collapse or says "so sorry to hear that" and fb full of everyone else's functional kids. I feel like I could fill an ocean with tears. Reading here I see many in the same boat. Thank you for feedback.