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<blockquote data-quote="LoveSushi" data-source="post: 617581" data-attributes="member: 17587"><p>My daughter (I'm not at the point of calling her my difficult child yet) has been extremely challenging since birth. I was too indulgent as parent...tried to give my kids everything I never got as a kid, and not following through on discipline. </p><p></p><p>When she hit middle school she really went crazy. She was flunking everything, was basically pushed through to high school. She started hanging out with a really bad crowd, defiant, disrespectful, disobedient, basically dropped out of school, and was getting very deep into drugs. We were at the point of either having her kidnapped and taken to a "boot camp" type place for troubled kids, becoming a "youth at risk" ward of the court, or having her move in with her dad who lived over an hour away. </p><p></p><p>She moved in with her dad. At least we got her away from the druggies she was hanging out with; the "boyfriend" we moved her away from is now dead because of a meth-induced car accident. But she still hasn't finished school and a little over a year ago moved back to Olympia. She chose not to live with us because we had rules (home by 10 pm on weeknights was the big one) and her being here was contingent on her following them. Long story short, she has completely distanced herself from me and does not talk to me at all, she is married now, she is very much into the college drinking-pot-smoking lifestyle (her husband is a college student).</p><p></p><p>There's so much more, but I won't bore you with it. </p><p></p><p>She is the only one I know of who knows where I kept my jewelry, and who our adult Bernese Mt. Dog, Sophie, would let in the house. The back slider is usually unlocked. She knew that too. The side gate into the back yard (not visible from street) was open. The only thing stolen from our house is the jewelry. That is it.</p><p></p><p>My husband is now going around the "We buy gold" shops with descriptions of the jewelry and photo of her and her husband. The police will be monitoring everything that comes into the area pawn shops as here in WA pawn shops are required to keep everything 30 days and all jewelry/electronics/firearms are required to be entered into a database which the police can search. The office was also going to pay her a visit...he knows where she lives, and she and her husband are already on their radar for the partying and God knows what else.</p><p></p><p>I sent her a private msg on FB (she unfriended me long ago, but at least doesn't have me blocked anymore). It said <em>"Someone burglarized my house today. Knew exactly where to go to find my diamond wedding ring, my diamond pendant and my mothers jewelry. I am calling the police. You are going to be contacted by them, I'm sure." </em></p><p></p><p>Her response: <em> "I can't believe you think it was me. You're insane. But okay, that's fine with me because I didnt do anything. Once this all blows over, I want no contact with you at all." </em> </p><p></p><p>She has been a thief and liar as long as I can remember...and always denies with profanity and anger. Her brother received this message from her when he asked if she'd done it: <em> "Are you ***king joking me Brian? You people really ***king think I'd do that?? ***k you. I'm living my life, with out you ***king people. This is crazy." </em>Historically a very typical response from her, even when caught red-handed.</p><p></p><p>I honestly don't want anything to do with her. I don't like her. It's such a pity, because she can be such a charming, funny, intelligent, witty person. I am so jealous of mothers who have such beautiful relationships with their adult daughters...daughters who have it together and aren't drugged-up high-school drop-outs who got married in order to get more financial aid.</p><p></p><p>*sighs* I have cried my last tears over her. It's in the hands of the police now and I really hope they can catch and convict her. She needs a serious reality check and if she has to be behind bars to get it, then so be it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LoveSushi, post: 617581, member: 17587"] My daughter (I'm not at the point of calling her my difficult child yet) has been extremely challenging since birth. I was too indulgent as parent...tried to give my kids everything I never got as a kid, and not following through on discipline. When she hit middle school she really went crazy. She was flunking everything, was basically pushed through to high school. She started hanging out with a really bad crowd, defiant, disrespectful, disobedient, basically dropped out of school, and was getting very deep into drugs. We were at the point of either having her kidnapped and taken to a "boot camp" type place for troubled kids, becoming a "youth at risk" ward of the court, or having her move in with her dad who lived over an hour away. She moved in with her dad. At least we got her away from the druggies she was hanging out with; the "boyfriend" we moved her away from is now dead because of a meth-induced car accident. But she still hasn't finished school and a little over a year ago moved back to Olympia. She chose not to live with us because we had rules (home by 10 pm on weeknights was the big one) and her being here was contingent on her following them. Long story short, she has completely distanced herself from me and does not talk to me at all, she is married now, she is very much into the college drinking-pot-smoking lifestyle (her husband is a college student). There's so much more, but I won't bore you with it. She is the only one I know of who knows where I kept my jewelry, and who our adult Bernese Mt. Dog, Sophie, would let in the house. The back slider is usually unlocked. She knew that too. The side gate into the back yard (not visible from street) was open. The only thing stolen from our house is the jewelry. That is it. My husband is now going around the "We buy gold" shops with descriptions of the jewelry and photo of her and her husband. The police will be monitoring everything that comes into the area pawn shops as here in WA pawn shops are required to keep everything 30 days and all jewelry/electronics/firearms are required to be entered into a database which the police can search. The office was also going to pay her a visit...he knows where she lives, and she and her husband are already on their radar for the partying and God knows what else. I sent her a private msg on FB (she unfriended me long ago, but at least doesn't have me blocked anymore). It said [I]"Someone burglarized my house today. Knew exactly where to go to find my diamond wedding ring, my diamond pendant and my mothers jewelry. I am calling the police. You are going to be contacted by them, I'm sure." [/I] Her response: [I] "I can't believe you think it was me. You're insane. But okay, that's fine with me because I didnt do anything. Once this all blows over, I want no contact with you at all." [/I] She has been a thief and liar as long as I can remember...and always denies with profanity and anger. Her brother received this message from her when he asked if she'd done it: [I] "Are you ***king joking me Brian? You people really ***king think I'd do that?? ***k you. I'm living my life, with out you ***king people. This is crazy." [/I]Historically a very typical response from her, even when caught red-handed. I honestly don't want anything to do with her. I don't like her. It's such a pity, because she can be such a charming, funny, intelligent, witty person. I am so jealous of mothers who have such beautiful relationships with their adult daughters...daughters who have it together and aren't drugged-up high-school drop-outs who got married in order to get more financial aid. *sighs* I have cried my last tears over her. It's in the hands of the police now and I really hope they can catch and convict her. She needs a serious reality check and if she has to be behind bars to get it, then so be it. [/QUOTE]
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