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<blockquote data-quote="LoveSushi" data-source="post: 618036" data-attributes="member: 17587"><p>Oh wg67, I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel...I also feel ashamed and depressed over how my daughter has turned out and what we might have done differently to prevent it. This board has already helped me so much...just knowing that other people are going through the same thing gives me strength. I am just coming to the acceptance that she was born "broken" and until and unless she sees her problems and seeks help, I don't want her in my life in any way. I did the best I could with her, we gave her every advantage any child could ever want (that we could afford), she could have had the world as her oyster with her intelligence and personality. I was abused by her verbally and emotionally for far too long...far too long. </p><p></p><p>Where is your daughter now? Are you working on "detachment"? Are you still in contact with her? </p><p></p><p>There is so much wisdom here in this community. Please reach out and accept the support and acceptance that is here. Take good care of yourself, you deserve to be nurtured and spoiled a little.</p><p></p><p><strong>WE HAVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF</strong>. We were GOOD parents. We are NOT responsible for the choices and actions of our kids. We can't control it, and we don't have to be victims of it any more! </p><p></p><p>*hugs* to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LoveSushi, post: 618036, member: 17587"] Oh wg67, I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel...I also feel ashamed and depressed over how my daughter has turned out and what we might have done differently to prevent it. This board has already helped me so much...just knowing that other people are going through the same thing gives me strength. I am just coming to the acceptance that she was born "broken" and until and unless she sees her problems and seeks help, I don't want her in my life in any way. I did the best I could with her, we gave her every advantage any child could ever want (that we could afford), she could have had the world as her oyster with her intelligence and personality. I was abused by her verbally and emotionally for far too long...far too long. Where is your daughter now? Are you working on "detachment"? Are you still in contact with her? There is so much wisdom here in this community. Please reach out and accept the support and acceptance that is here. Take good care of yourself, you deserve to be nurtured and spoiled a little. [B]WE HAVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF[/B]. We were GOOD parents. We are NOT responsible for the choices and actions of our kids. We can't control it, and we don't have to be victims of it any more! *hugs* to you. [/QUOTE]
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