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New Buck thread...other got too long. RE's Good Ideas.
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 583468" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>I'm with Buddy....stop engaging and stop helping him. He isn't taking the advice and his lies just make you angry. Tony dumped it back on you again by saying he and Buck can't handle it. OK fine then Tony and Buck can do the work and ask you for assistance when you need it. Why isn't Tony pushing him to work? Why isn't Tony wondering where he was and why he looks high as a kite? </p><p></p><p>There are simple ways to handle it. JUST STOP! Set down with Tony and make a list of weekly requirements.Make Tony enforce them. Tell Tony if Buck doesn't do them then Tony has to. Tell them if Tony and Buck dont handle their end of the bargain you wont help them with the things they need help with. IE: you scratch my back and get Buck to do his chores and I'll scratch yours back by helping with phone calls and paperwork.</p><p></p><p>PS: to ensure that he submits applications make him bring home copies of the applications he fills out. If the business wont copy it make him bring home a second application and fill it out. Call the business the next day to ensure he did turn one in and if he didn't then make Tony and Buck take the completed application to the business.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 583468, member: 15473"] I'm with Buddy....stop engaging and stop helping him. He isn't taking the advice and his lies just make you angry. Tony dumped it back on you again by saying he and Buck can't handle it. OK fine then Tony and Buck can do the work and ask you for assistance when you need it. Why isn't Tony pushing him to work? Why isn't Tony wondering where he was and why he looks high as a kite? There are simple ways to handle it. JUST STOP! Set down with Tony and make a list of weekly requirements.Make Tony enforce them. Tell Tony if Buck doesn't do them then Tony has to. Tell them if Tony and Buck dont handle their end of the bargain you wont help them with the things they need help with. IE: you scratch my back and get Buck to do his chores and I'll scratch yours back by helping with phone calls and paperwork. PS: to ensure that he submits applications make him bring home copies of the applications he fills out. If the business wont copy it make him bring home a second application and fill it out. Call the business the next day to ensure he did turn one in and if he didn't then make Tony and Buck take the completed application to the business. [/QUOTE]
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