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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 538058" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>First of all, if she was "touched" once, she was probably "touched" a lot. Most k ids don't fess up to the whole thing. ANd CPS can't do anything without proof, especially if the child won't say so. If your daughter is kissing her one sibling, she could be touching other ones so I would never take my eyes off of her or leave her alone with any of them. It's dangerous. She may be dangerous. It may not be her fault she was touched or molested or whatever, but she is acting out on at least one other child and that can hurt all of your younger children.</p><p></p><p>That is what my focus would be on first. If you don't tell the pediatrician her history with bio. dad and how she was kissing her sibling then pediatrician has no real clue as the seriousness of what has and is going on. I recommend telling him everything. Frankly, I think you should take her to see a psychiatrist. in my opinion she needs more than counseling...that's not enough. And you must MUST keep your other children safe. Do you think biol dad may have "touched" them as well?</p><p></p><p>This molestation which probably was far more than once is probably the key to all of her behavior. How old is N and how old is the sibling she was k issing (and don't assume it was the first and only time). Could have been. Good chance it wasn't.</p><p></p><p>Do your kids still have visitation with bio. dad?? I hope not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 538058, member: 1550"] First of all, if she was "touched" once, she was probably "touched" a lot. Most k ids don't fess up to the whole thing. ANd CPS can't do anything without proof, especially if the child won't say so. If your daughter is kissing her one sibling, she could be touching other ones so I would never take my eyes off of her or leave her alone with any of them. It's dangerous. She may be dangerous. It may not be her fault she was touched or molested or whatever, but she is acting out on at least one other child and that can hurt all of your younger children. That is what my focus would be on first. If you don't tell the pediatrician her history with bio. dad and how she was kissing her sibling then pediatrician has no real clue as the seriousness of what has and is going on. I recommend telling him everything. Frankly, I think you should take her to see a psychiatrist. in my opinion she needs more than counseling...that's not enough. And you must MUST keep your other children safe. Do you think biol dad may have "touched" them as well? This molestation which probably was far more than once is probably the key to all of her behavior. How old is N and how old is the sibling she was k issing (and don't assume it was the first and only time). Could have been. Good chance it wasn't. Do your kids still have visitation with bio. dad?? I hope not. [/QUOTE]
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