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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 538117" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Did you tell these doctors that your daughter was molested and they STILL didn't send her to a specialist for children who have been sexually abused to see how much has happened? That shocks me because they are mandated reporters and normally have to tell CPS, which could get you FREE help. Or are you not telling them about this? If not, in my opinion you are making a grave mistake. When this happened in our family, (an older adopted brother did it), the younger kids got excellent services, all paid for and it was taken EXTREMELY seriously. And until he left, we had no clue the extent of what he'd done. Nobody has ever seen him again since he left.</p><p></p><p>You need to try to stop bio. father from having unsupervised visitation. I am assuming his mother doesn't believe he molested his daughter and doesn't watch them.</p><p></p><p>Even if Daughter goes to bed an hour early, she gets up in the middle of the night and could go into the other kid's rooms and hurt them. I recommend a lock on her door so you can get up whenever s he does and make sure s he just, say, goes to the bathroom and goes back to her room. Also, a lock on the others doors would be good. I would not let her sleep with any of the other kids under any circumstances. </p><p></p><p>Even if she has other disorders too,t he molestation is going to mess her up worse and her siblings may not be disclosing. Kids usually do not tell when they are sexually abused. The abuser usually threatens them good and scares them to death. "If you tell them, I'll kill Mommy." "I'll go to jail if you tell and nobody will send you money and it will be your fault." (This scares a child). "Nobody will believe you anyway so don't waste your time." </p><p></p><p>It is rare for an adult perp to only perp one time. It usually goes on and on until some adult catches on and stops it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 538117, member: 1550"] Did you tell these doctors that your daughter was molested and they STILL didn't send her to a specialist for children who have been sexually abused to see how much has happened? That shocks me because they are mandated reporters and normally have to tell CPS, which could get you FREE help. Or are you not telling them about this? If not, in my opinion you are making a grave mistake. When this happened in our family, (an older adopted brother did it), the younger kids got excellent services, all paid for and it was taken EXTREMELY seriously. And until he left, we had no clue the extent of what he'd done. Nobody has ever seen him again since he left. You need to try to stop bio. father from having unsupervised visitation. I am assuming his mother doesn't believe he molested his daughter and doesn't watch them. Even if Daughter goes to bed an hour early, she gets up in the middle of the night and could go into the other kid's rooms and hurt them. I recommend a lock on her door so you can get up whenever s he does and make sure s he just, say, goes to the bathroom and goes back to her room. Also, a lock on the others doors would be good. I would not let her sleep with any of the other kids under any circumstances. Even if she has other disorders too,t he molestation is going to mess her up worse and her siblings may not be disclosing. Kids usually do not tell when they are sexually abused. The abuser usually threatens them good and scares them to death. "If you tell them, I'll kill Mommy." "I'll go to jail if you tell and nobody will send you money and it will be your fault." (This scares a child). "Nobody will believe you anyway so don't waste your time." It is rare for an adult perp to only perp one time. It usually goes on and on until some adult catches on and stops it. [/QUOTE]
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