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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 711785" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It happens a lot.</p><p></p><p>Go to your favorite search engine and type in "estranged stories." It is 100% dedicated to estranged parents. in my opinion you probably gave your daughter too much help and she was probably not all that mature or nice anyway so when you said no she decided to punish you until you say yes. To me, thats not love. Its cruel.</p><p></p><p>Check out the estranged site. Estrangement us epidemic. Most mothers dont even know why they are estranged. You are lucky so far. She (cough) is generous (cough) enough to "let" you see your grandson. Some are cut off from them too.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion your husband is the most important adult in your life now. Your daugjter is middle aged and needs to learn to pay her own way. You will be gone one day. She is throwing an adult tantrum, similar to toddlers when you wont buy them candy. She is 39. It isnt her business if you move and if she feels abandoned she needs therapy, not pity. I would live my life and NOT involve her in ypur marital and personal decisions.</p><p></p><p>You may want to read Stop Walking on Eggshell by Randi Krieger. Helpful book.</p><p></p><p>Check out that site on estranged parents!!! You will have lots of company and realistic support there. Nice folks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 711785, member: 1550"] It happens a lot. Go to your favorite search engine and type in "estranged stories." It is 100% dedicated to estranged parents. in my opinion you probably gave your daughter too much help and she was probably not all that mature or nice anyway so when you said no she decided to punish you until you say yes. To me, thats not love. Its cruel. Check out the estranged site. Estrangement us epidemic. Most mothers dont even know why they are estranged. You are lucky so far. She (cough) is generous (cough) enough to "let" you see your grandson. Some are cut off from them too. in my opinion your husband is the most important adult in your life now. Your daugjter is middle aged and needs to learn to pay her own way. You will be gone one day. She is throwing an adult tantrum, similar to toddlers when you wont buy them candy. She is 39. It isnt her business if you move and if she feels abandoned she needs therapy, not pity. I would live my life and NOT involve her in ypur marital and personal decisions. You may want to read Stop Walking on Eggshell by Randi Krieger. Helpful book. Check out that site on estranged parents!!! You will have lots of company and realistic support there. Nice folks. [/QUOTE]
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