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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 400157" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>You are definitely in good company here. I also have a difficult child who hates me. She spent 60 days in rehab this past summer and five weeks in outpaitent. She has since relapsed. We have kicked her out of our house but she is currently back in trying to abide by our rules until she can earn enough money to pay for the repairs on her car and get an apartment. Sometimes I am so sad because she seems to not care about us at all and it would be very easy for her to walk away and never see us again. I wish I could get to that point but so far I haven't been able to. I have gone to al-anon meetings but still find myself wanting her to change even though in my heart I know she won't.</p><p></p><p>I don't want to be discouraging but you should have a plan for what you will do if living with his grandparents doesn't work. I doubt whether he is going to stop doing drugs without help and he may be looking at this move as a way to do what he wants without interference. I know no matter where my difficult child would go she would act the same. It isn't us she hates, it's anyone who makes her follow rules.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 400157, member: 59"] You are definitely in good company here. I also have a difficult child who hates me. She spent 60 days in rehab this past summer and five weeks in outpaitent. She has since relapsed. We have kicked her out of our house but she is currently back in trying to abide by our rules until she can earn enough money to pay for the repairs on her car and get an apartment. Sometimes I am so sad because she seems to not care about us at all and it would be very easy for her to walk away and never see us again. I wish I could get to that point but so far I haven't been able to. I have gone to al-anon meetings but still find myself wanting her to change even though in my heart I know she won't. I don't want to be discouraging but you should have a plan for what you will do if living with his grandparents doesn't work. I doubt whether he is going to stop doing drugs without help and he may be looking at this move as a way to do what he wants without interference. I know no matter where my difficult child would go she would act the same. It isn't us she hates, it's anyone who makes her follow rules. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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