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<blockquote data-quote="2daughters" data-source="post: 260700" data-attributes="member: 7134"><p>She is seeing a therapist about it, who specializes in it. The police near where her father lives (we live 1200 miles apart .. I moved that distance to protect her from him) have accused myself and my husband of doing that to her. Her bio. father admitted to me that he did, then promptly blamed it on a screen door. I'm getting ready to start a civil suit against him, and have the full support of the police and doctors here. I'm hoping that by doing this it will show my daughter that not only do I, the police here, and the doctors here believe her, but it'll be some form of closure and will force the family courts to quit trying to force her into a harmful situation. He's got an annual "game" of taking me to court and trying for custody of her (I've got sole custody, but it's joint guardianship). The sexual assault on her actually happened the day of court on a court ordered visit. I'm doing everything I can to stop all visitations. Fortunately, so far, I haven't been able to take her to the last 2 visitations because of vehicle problems. I'm working with social services and a branch of the police that specialize in sexual assaults and child abuse and trying to get a restraining order on him.</p><p></p><p>I honestly wonder, deep down, if it is the molestation that she endured and the physical abuses from him. Even though her bio. father has a history of abuse, and plead guilty to domestic violence and attempted manslaughter (he beat me while I was pregnant with her and I charged him), has been charged with child abuse in the past, and I have photo proof and witnesses to what he'd done to my daughter (not including the molestation), the courts don't want to see it. I'm trying to put an end to the court battles with him once and for all so that I can concentrate on helping her come to terms and dealing with what happened to her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2daughters, post: 260700, member: 7134"] She is seeing a therapist about it, who specializes in it. The police near where her father lives (we live 1200 miles apart .. I moved that distance to protect her from him) have accused myself and my husband of doing that to her. Her bio. father admitted to me that he did, then promptly blamed it on a screen door. I'm getting ready to start a civil suit against him, and have the full support of the police and doctors here. I'm hoping that by doing this it will show my daughter that not only do I, the police here, and the doctors here believe her, but it'll be some form of closure and will force the family courts to quit trying to force her into a harmful situation. He's got an annual "game" of taking me to court and trying for custody of her (I've got sole custody, but it's joint guardianship). The sexual assault on her actually happened the day of court on a court ordered visit. I'm doing everything I can to stop all visitations. Fortunately, so far, I haven't been able to take her to the last 2 visitations because of vehicle problems. I'm working with social services and a branch of the police that specialize in sexual assaults and child abuse and trying to get a restraining order on him. I honestly wonder, deep down, if it is the molestation that she endured and the physical abuses from him. Even though her bio. father has a history of abuse, and plead guilty to domestic violence and attempted manslaughter (he beat me while I was pregnant with her and I charged him), has been charged with child abuse in the past, and I have photo proof and witnesses to what he'd done to my daughter (not including the molestation), the courts don't want to see it. I'm trying to put an end to the court battles with him once and for all so that I can concentrate on helping her come to terms and dealing with what happened to her. [/QUOTE]
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