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New here-My 19 yo old son moved out-I'm heartbroken & scared.
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 457218"><p>Thanks everyone. I got this email this morning; </p><p>Mom-</p><p></p><p>Dad just texted x (his girlfriend) saying I needed to contact you. I wanted to let you know that I'm fine, and I'm going to stay in university-town and go to school here because this is what's best for my future as far as my education and life. *As long as "this university" is off the table, I do not think we can come to a compromise.Love, difficult child </p><p></p><p>My answer:</p><p>My dear difficult child</p><p></p><p>I truly wish you much luck and success this semester. There is nothing I hope and pray for more than for you to make the most of your educational opportunity and *achieve success both personally and scholastically. Please stay in touch once in a while so I *know you are ok. I love you with all of my heart.</p><p></p><p>If you change your mind-always *know that your home is here awaiting you. I will miss you greatly. The lines of communication are always open. You may leave us but we will never stop loving you. Never ever. My heart is broken in a million pieces. Stay safe my dear son, be wise and careful. I love you so. Love, mom</p><p> </p><p>It wasn't the answer I wanted to write. That one is 2 pages long and would likely push him further away. I just needed to answer (after 3 hours) and and not inflame this </p><p>any further. Of course he is only welcome home on our terms but I am hoping that is implied. Should it happen, I will make it clear before he crosses the threshold.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 457218"] Thanks everyone. I got this email this morning; Mom- Dad just texted x (his girlfriend) saying I needed to contact you. I wanted to let you know that I'm fine, and I'm going to stay in university-town and go to school here because this is what's best for my future as far as my education and life. *As long as "this university" is off the table, I do not think we can come to a compromise.Love, difficult child My answer: My dear difficult child I truly wish you much luck and success this semester. There is nothing I hope and pray for more than for you to make the most of your educational opportunity and *achieve success both personally and scholastically. Please stay in touch once in a while so I *know you are ok. I love you with all of my heart. If you change your mind-always *know that your home is here awaiting you. I will miss you greatly. The lines of communication are always open. You may leave us but we will never stop loving you. Never ever. My heart is broken in a million pieces. Stay safe my dear son, be wise and careful. I love you so. Love, mom It wasn't the answer I wanted to write. That one is 2 pages long and would likely push him further away. I just needed to answer (after 3 hours) and and not inflame this any further. Of course he is only welcome home on our terms but I am hoping that is implied. Should it happen, I will make it clear before he crosses the threshold. [/QUOTE]
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