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New here-My 19 yo old son moved out-I'm heartbroken & scared.
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 457375" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>You are very wise and showed a great deal of love and restraint in your text to your son. You left the door to communication open. It's up to him now to prove that he is going to succeed. Our difficult child chose to leave our house too when she could not follow our rules of no pot smoking or drinking. She moved in with a boy down the street whose parents said we were too strict and pot smoking was no big deal. That lasted three months until she decided she hated living there. This guy is now a heroin addict, so much for pot smoking being ok. Our difficult child got kicked out of college in her first semester for drugs and alcohol. I hope this does not happen to your son.</p><p></p><p>I understand your fear about the drugs paraphenalia he purchased. That doesn't sound like a casual user, it sounds like he is selling. There is nothing you can do to stop or control him, he is an adult. That doesn't make it any easier for you I know. All you can do is stay strong and hope and pray he makes the right decisions.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 457375, member: 59"] You are very wise and showed a great deal of love and restraint in your text to your son. You left the door to communication open. It's up to him now to prove that he is going to succeed. Our difficult child chose to leave our house too when she could not follow our rules of no pot smoking or drinking. She moved in with a boy down the street whose parents said we were too strict and pot smoking was no big deal. That lasted three months until she decided she hated living there. This guy is now a heroin addict, so much for pot smoking being ok. Our difficult child got kicked out of college in her first semester for drugs and alcohol. I hope this does not happen to your son. I understand your fear about the drugs paraphenalia he purchased. That doesn't sound like a casual user, it sounds like he is selling. There is nothing you can do to stop or control him, he is an adult. That doesn't make it any easier for you I know. All you can do is stay strong and hope and pray he makes the right decisions. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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