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<blockquote data-quote="tiredmommy" data-source="post: 6700" data-attributes="member: 1722"><p>Hi J and welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here. We are just experienced parents here and can't diagnose but it does sound like your daughter's behavior is outside of normal bounds.</p><p></p><p>I've got a few questions:</p><p>Do you feel the problem with dressing is because she's being rushed, doesn't like/feels uncomfortable in the clothes or she is frustrated/overwhelmed?</p><p>What other triggers have you noticed?</p><p>How does she interact with her peers/brother?</p><p>How long do her rages last?</p><p>Did she develop normally (meet her milestones? sleep problems? frequent illnesses?)?</p><p>Is there any history of mental illness or developmental disabilities in the family tree?</p><p></p><p>As for her behaving well for others, it's not uncommon for our kids to honeymoon with others outside the home. Our kids tend to let loose at home because they just can't hold it together any longer. You are going to want to get your daughter evaluated, preferably by a team of specialists, to figure out what's going on with her. FWIW, ODD often travels with a co-morbid condition (such as bipolar, adhd or autistic spectrum). In these cases, it's imperative to figure out the root cause in order to lesson the effects of ODD.</p><p>Here's some info about some of the various disorders we've seen come through here, multidisciplinary evaluations:</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.klis.com/chandler/pamphlet/oddcd/oddcdpamphlet.htm" target="_blank">http://www.klis.com/chandler/pamphlet/oddcd/oddcdpamphlet.htm</a></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Many of us have had great success with the parenting techniques explored in The Explosive Child by Ross Greene, you probably should get hold of copy as our kids don't tend to respond to traditional parenting methods.</p><p></p><p>Again, welcome. Responses can be slow as we are heading into a holiday week soon, but others will be along.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tiredmommy, post: 6700, member: 1722"] Hi J and welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here. We are just experienced parents here and can't diagnose but it does sound like your daughter's behavior is outside of normal bounds. I've got a few questions: Do you feel the problem with dressing is because she's being rushed, doesn't like/feels uncomfortable in the clothes or she is frustrated/overwhelmed? What other triggers have you noticed? How does she interact with her peers/brother? How long do her rages last? Did she develop normally (meet her milestones? sleep problems? frequent illnesses?)? Is there any history of mental illness or developmental disabilities in the family tree? As for her behaving well for others, it's not uncommon for our kids to honeymoon with others outside the home. Our kids tend to let loose at home because they just can't hold it together any longer. You are going to want to get your daughter evaluated, preferably by a team of specialists, to figure out what's going on with her. FWIW, ODD often travels with a co-morbid condition (such as bipolar, adhd or autistic spectrum). In these cases, it's imperative to figure out the root cause in order to lesson the effects of ODD. Here's some info about some of the various disorders we've seen come through here, multidisciplinary evaluations: [url]http://www.klis.com/chandler/pamphlet/oddcd/oddcdpamphlet.htm[/url] Many of us have had great success with the parenting techniques explored in The Explosive Child by Ross Greene, you probably should get hold of copy as our kids don't tend to respond to traditional parenting methods. Again, welcome. Responses can be slow as we are heading into a holiday week soon, but others will be along. [/QUOTE]
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