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<blockquote data-quote="mythreetees" data-source="post: 6704" data-attributes="member: 3320"><p>Thanks so much for the welcome and the advice. To answer your questions: We have tried having her pick out her clothes the night before and in the morning she will change her mind and throw a fit. It isn't just clothes. I think that she wants to be the one in control. Last night we had another one because I went to let the dog out before I helped her with her homework. I didn't even know that she was ready for my help. She wanted me to put the dog back and somehow undo what was already done. This is very common. She wants me to have magical powers and if she doesn't like the way something is or if what she wants at that moment isn't available than she gets angry and wants me to fix it to her liking, which is usually not possible. She did have reflux pretty badly as a baby, she didn't sleep and cried all night. We finally had to swadle her at night in order to get her to sleep. If she could move her arms at all she would wake up screaming. She did grow out of it at about 11 months, but really has been difficult ever since. She did develop normally, was even a little early reaching quite a few of her milestones. Her an her brother can usually play together quite well, but lately she has started to be really mean and nasty if he does something that she doesn't like, she will yell and shove him and tell him that she never wants to play with him again, and when I tell her to be nice she looks at me like "are you really talking to me?" and just keeps doing what she wants. She gets along great with her friends from school. It really does just seem to be here at home or at Grandmas that she behaves this way. </p><p></p><p>My mom, me and my sister have all suffered from a little bit a depression and anxiety, but that is all. I appreciate all of the suggestions and will be looking at all of the website references and getting the Explosive Child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mythreetees, post: 6704, member: 3320"] Thanks so much for the welcome and the advice. To answer your questions: We have tried having her pick out her clothes the night before and in the morning she will change her mind and throw a fit. It isn't just clothes. I think that she wants to be the one in control. Last night we had another one because I went to let the dog out before I helped her with her homework. I didn't even know that she was ready for my help. She wanted me to put the dog back and somehow undo what was already done. This is very common. She wants me to have magical powers and if she doesn't like the way something is or if what she wants at that moment isn't available than she gets angry and wants me to fix it to her liking, which is usually not possible. She did have reflux pretty badly as a baby, she didn't sleep and cried all night. We finally had to swadle her at night in order to get her to sleep. If she could move her arms at all she would wake up screaming. She did grow out of it at about 11 months, but really has been difficult ever since. She did develop normally, was even a little early reaching quite a few of her milestones. Her an her brother can usually play together quite well, but lately she has started to be really mean and nasty if he does something that she doesn't like, she will yell and shove him and tell him that she never wants to play with him again, and when I tell her to be nice she looks at me like "are you really talking to me?" and just keeps doing what she wants. She gets along great with her friends from school. It really does just seem to be here at home or at Grandmas that she behaves this way. My mom, me and my sister have all suffered from a little bit a depression and anxiety, but that is all. I appreciate all of the suggestions and will be looking at all of the website references and getting the Explosive Child. [/QUOTE]
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