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<blockquote data-quote="CoolTwentyGrand" data-source="post: 281495" data-attributes="member: 7586"><p>I'm new here too hun, but let me tell you. You did the right thing as far as I'm concerned. </p><p>My son has oh so many disabilites mostly mental. But he was getting agressive towrds me and destroying things to get his way. He was acting like a little terrorist.</p><p>He got mad at me for refusing to back down on a house rule and he started busting windows in the house. By the time he broke the 4th window I was calling 911 for a cop. I explained to the 911 operator and the cop at my son's disabilites were and what was happening.</p><p>By the time the cop got there, I was locked out of the house. I explained to him what was going on and he called for my son to open the door and he refused, so the cop shouldered it open. My son was pacing through the house and he ignored the cop so the cop took him down to the floor and arrested him for disturbing the peace. I refused to bail him out and after making sure the nurses at the jail had all his medications and knew his history, I let him stay the full 5 days.</p><p>He doesn't exactly toe the fine line after that but he is much more respectful of the rules and he has yet to destroy anything that didn't belong to him. I'd say being hard core works. (he was 18 at the time and is 22 now).</p><p>I used to be bad about playing in the street and my mom would whip me hard for it but I'd keep it up. She used to say," I 'd rather whip the hide off you then to be scaping whats left of you off the street.."</p><p>Same reasoning, " I'd rather show him hard love than have to bury him because some cop had to shoot him for being too agressive."</p><p>HUgs Hun......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CoolTwentyGrand, post: 281495, member: 7586"] I'm new here too hun, but let me tell you. You did the right thing as far as I'm concerned. My son has oh so many disabilites mostly mental. But he was getting agressive towrds me and destroying things to get his way. He was acting like a little terrorist. He got mad at me for refusing to back down on a house rule and he started busting windows in the house. By the time he broke the 4th window I was calling 911 for a cop. I explained to the 911 operator and the cop at my son's disabilites were and what was happening. By the time the cop got there, I was locked out of the house. I explained to him what was going on and he called for my son to open the door and he refused, so the cop shouldered it open. My son was pacing through the house and he ignored the cop so the cop took him down to the floor and arrested him for disturbing the peace. I refused to bail him out and after making sure the nurses at the jail had all his medications and knew his history, I let him stay the full 5 days. He doesn't exactly toe the fine line after that but he is much more respectful of the rules and he has yet to destroy anything that didn't belong to him. I'd say being hard core works. (he was 18 at the time and is 22 now). I used to be bad about playing in the street and my mom would whip me hard for it but I'd keep it up. She used to say," I 'd rather whip the hide off you then to be scaping whats left of you off the street.." Same reasoning, " I'd rather show him hard love than have to bury him because some cop had to shoot him for being too agressive." HUgs Hun...... [/QUOTE]
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