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<blockquote data-quote="loosing sanity" data-source="post: 281573" data-attributes="member: 7584"><p>Thank you for your support and input,I will tell you what i know about his early childhood since he lived with his mom and she is not really forthcoming with info..</p><p>He lived close to us until the age of 9,at that time we had him from thurs-mon morning and his mother had him the rest of the time.We both worked so my sister babysat for me in our home,his mom moved several times..(21 times before she moved to the other side of the province at age 9)..He had numerous babysitters in which most of the time he was taken to their house and dropped of for up to 3 days at a time,while she worked and socialized..I confronted her numerous times about the lack of stability she was providing for him and how that may be affecting his behaviour but it fell on deaf ears.</p><p>At age 6 after the school spent 1 year trying to deal with his disruptive and bullying behaviour with no cooperation from mom,they sent him home and told her not to take him back until he had a doctor appointment...so she had no choice and he was sent to a pediatrician..then diagnosed with adhd,had </p><p> </p><p>After age 9 when we only seen him on holidays and summer months his behaviour got worse with his mom,he was sent to numerous councellors,child psychiatrist 1 per week,had an in school asessment done which found the learning disabilities but noone seemed to have the answers..he would not talk to anyone..</p><p>moving back with us in march 07, and after being kicked out of school 2 months later and finding 20 pairs of womens panties under his mattres,which ofcourse he does not know how they got there, we contacted family services and was able to get referred to adolescent mental health..again we filled out a book of Q&A about his behaviors(for the third time),had another inschool assessment done,started meeting with a concellor and was evaluated by a psychiatrist once who stated he thinks his problems center around his learning disability and low self esteem???learning disability yes I agree he has trouble...but he failed GYM.....refused to participate..</p><p>I believe there is more to his problems as well but it is hard to get a real good assesment on his behavior problems when he switched schools atleast every second year,its hard for the doctor to get all the puzzle pieces of his past history..I do believe he may have asburgers syndrome that is why We tried in vain to get him some help before he turns 18 and we no longer have a say...I fear for his future,I know he could not look after himself and would like some answers on how to get him on track..hubby is ready to give up long ago...but I cannot give up..He can be great when he wants to but also has a jeckle and hyde personality..I often wonder if he was to of had more stability the first 5 yrs,If he would be a different person.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="loosing sanity, post: 281573, member: 7584"] Thank you for your support and input,I will tell you what i know about his early childhood since he lived with his mom and she is not really forthcoming with info.. He lived close to us until the age of 9,at that time we had him from thurs-mon morning and his mother had him the rest of the time.We both worked so my sister babysat for me in our home,his mom moved several times..(21 times before she moved to the other side of the province at age 9)..He had numerous babysitters in which most of the time he was taken to their house and dropped of for up to 3 days at a time,while she worked and socialized..I confronted her numerous times about the lack of stability she was providing for him and how that may be affecting his behaviour but it fell on deaf ears. At age 6 after the school spent 1 year trying to deal with his disruptive and bullying behaviour with no cooperation from mom,they sent him home and told her not to take him back until he had a doctor appointment...so she had no choice and he was sent to a pediatrician..then diagnosed with adhd,had After age 9 when we only seen him on holidays and summer months his behaviour got worse with his mom,he was sent to numerous councellors,child psychiatrist 1 per week,had an in school asessment done which found the learning disabilities but noone seemed to have the answers..he would not talk to anyone.. moving back with us in march 07, and after being kicked out of school 2 months later and finding 20 pairs of womens panties under his mattres,which ofcourse he does not know how they got there, we contacted family services and was able to get referred to adolescent mental health..again we filled out a book of Q&A about his behaviors(for the third time),had another inschool assessment done,started meeting with a concellor and was evaluated by a psychiatrist once who stated he thinks his problems center around his learning disability and low self esteem???learning disability yes I agree he has trouble...but he failed GYM.....refused to participate.. I believe there is more to his problems as well but it is hard to get a real good assesment on his behavior problems when he switched schools atleast every second year,its hard for the doctor to get all the puzzle pieces of his past history..I do believe he may have asburgers syndrome that is why We tried in vain to get him some help before he turns 18 and we no longer have a say...I fear for his future,I know he could not look after himself and would like some answers on how to get him on track..hubby is ready to give up long ago...but I cannot give up..He can be great when he wants to but also has a jeckle and hyde personality..I often wonder if he was to of had more stability the first 5 yrs,If he would be a different person. [/QUOTE]
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