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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 403361"><p>I agree with checking with the authorities on evicting her. Laws vary by state. Where we live all we needed to do was give our son a no tresspass order to our home. He did not legally have a right to live here because he was not paying rent. So the day we kicked him out last year he was being awful.... we told him he could not live here if he could not follow our rules (which were simple and what you would expect from anyone living with you, like not stealing, no violence, not taking the car without permission). He said if we called the police he would leave and then come back after they were gone. He had done that once before. He was so cocky. So after crying for a while, I got up, got dressed and went to the police and talked to them. They then agreed to just show up at a certain time and give him the no trespass order. They came, he was not expecting him, and they were here while he collected some things and then they drove him to the center of town. That was in June 2010.</p><p></p><p>Lots of not great stuff happened in between where he got himself into a heap of trouble, spent a couple weeks in jail because of his legal problems and that woke him up. He ended up agreeing to a plea agreement and going to a rehab program (a big part of his issue is drugs) and he has just finished his 90 days and is doing very well so far. He is out of state and is not coming home any time soon...... which is a lot better for all of us. He needs to find a way to be independent and live his life and he seems to be doing that...So right now it is good news. As awful as the interim was he needed to be woken up and that started with us kicking him out of the house. I don't regret doing that at all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 403361"] I agree with checking with the authorities on evicting her. Laws vary by state. Where we live all we needed to do was give our son a no tresspass order to our home. He did not legally have a right to live here because he was not paying rent. So the day we kicked him out last year he was being awful.... we told him he could not live here if he could not follow our rules (which were simple and what you would expect from anyone living with you, like not stealing, no violence, not taking the car without permission). He said if we called the police he would leave and then come back after they were gone. He had done that once before. He was so cocky. So after crying for a while, I got up, got dressed and went to the police and talked to them. They then agreed to just show up at a certain time and give him the no trespass order. They came, he was not expecting him, and they were here while he collected some things and then they drove him to the center of town. That was in June 2010. Lots of not great stuff happened in between where he got himself into a heap of trouble, spent a couple weeks in jail because of his legal problems and that woke him up. He ended up agreeing to a plea agreement and going to a rehab program (a big part of his issue is drugs) and he has just finished his 90 days and is doing very well so far. He is out of state and is not coming home any time soon...... which is a lot better for all of us. He needs to find a way to be independent and live his life and he seems to be doing that...So right now it is good news. As awful as the interim was he needed to be woken up and that started with us kicking him out of the house. I don't regret doing that at all. [/QUOTE]
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