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<blockquote data-quote="troubled" data-source="post: 404299"><p>I had to wait until my post cleared through to be posted. I didn't forget. This is what happened; difficult child came back home with only 3 days left. She has been slooooooow to pack her things. Her boyfriend's father is paying for a large ($50 month) storage unit with the hopes that she will pay him back "when" she gets her SSI. She still doesn't even have an ID but she's also still adamant that she will get SSI. </p><p></p><p>My sister has volunteered to come over and provide transportation to the storage unit but neither she or I will help load or pick up or pack her things. All she has to do is put stuff in a bag, tub or box but she's (ADHD) trying clothes on, waffling about what to get rid of and otherwise is stalling the inevitable. When my sister is not here, difficult child starts in on me instantly. She's wanting me to make her something to eat, messing up the kitchen ( 9pm at night!) well after we already had dinner, went shopping today to take things back, etc. Taking her sweet old time. </p><p></p><p>My sister is getting very frustrated. So far, difficult child has only packed 20 boxes and has a long way to go. The good part is, after the 31st, my poor sister will be letting difficult child stay with her until she returns to the other state where her boyfriend is. I get a break but she has to put up with difficult child. Bad part is, my sister is not mentally doing well herself. </p><p></p><p>I have not had to call police or sheriff. I can't do anything, I found out, unless there are court papers saying she has not moved out. Police and sheriff will not remove her without court order. That much I know for sure. difficult child plans on "doing whatever she wants" until after the 31st. Despite having packed very little, she was talking about visiting a friend and spending the night there tonight which means she would be up half the night on the computer over there chatting or whatever. Has not packed a thing since my sister left here at past 9pm. </p><p></p><p>I doubt it will all get in storage by the 31st and there is a BIG snowstorm coming and I did not want to be trapped here with difficult child after the 31st so she's going home with her aunt tomorrow night. But she will have to come back again to get more of her stuff later this week and doesn't know yet when she will return to her boyfriend. I don't care if her stuff is not all out right away but I don't want her spending the nights here keeping me up all night, taunting me, etc. My poor sister and her husband will have to deal with her. I can't. I am so grateful to them for saving the day but I think my sister is already regretting her offer of help. </p><p></p><p>Speaking of being grateful, I am grateful to all of you! I have not always jumped in to tell you that something you said was of importance to me or that I really felt bad for you or that I applaud you but I am here anyway and now you know. Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="troubled, post: 404299"] I had to wait until my post cleared through to be posted. I didn't forget. This is what happened; difficult child came back home with only 3 days left. She has been slooooooow to pack her things. Her boyfriend's father is paying for a large ($50 month) storage unit with the hopes that she will pay him back "when" she gets her SSI. She still doesn't even have an ID but she's also still adamant that she will get SSI. My sister has volunteered to come over and provide transportation to the storage unit but neither she or I will help load or pick up or pack her things. All she has to do is put stuff in a bag, tub or box but she's (ADHD) trying clothes on, waffling about what to get rid of and otherwise is stalling the inevitable. When my sister is not here, difficult child starts in on me instantly. She's wanting me to make her something to eat, messing up the kitchen ( 9pm at night!) well after we already had dinner, went shopping today to take things back, etc. Taking her sweet old time. My sister is getting very frustrated. So far, difficult child has only packed 20 boxes and has a long way to go. The good part is, after the 31st, my poor sister will be letting difficult child stay with her until she returns to the other state where her boyfriend is. I get a break but she has to put up with difficult child. Bad part is, my sister is not mentally doing well herself. I have not had to call police or sheriff. I can't do anything, I found out, unless there are court papers saying she has not moved out. Police and sheriff will not remove her without court order. That much I know for sure. difficult child plans on "doing whatever she wants" until after the 31st. Despite having packed very little, she was talking about visiting a friend and spending the night there tonight which means she would be up half the night on the computer over there chatting or whatever. Has not packed a thing since my sister left here at past 9pm. I doubt it will all get in storage by the 31st and there is a BIG snowstorm coming and I did not want to be trapped here with difficult child after the 31st so she's going home with her aunt tomorrow night. But she will have to come back again to get more of her stuff later this week and doesn't know yet when she will return to her boyfriend. I don't care if her stuff is not all out right away but I don't want her spending the nights here keeping me up all night, taunting me, etc. My poor sister and her husband will have to deal with her. I can't. I am so grateful to them for saving the day but I think my sister is already regretting her offer of help. Speaking of being grateful, I am grateful to all of you! I have not always jumped in to tell you that something you said was of importance to me or that I really felt bad for you or that I applaud you but I am here anyway and now you know. Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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