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<blockquote data-quote="curlycallie" data-source="post: 307278" data-attributes="member: 7645"><p>Thank you for the warm welcome and replies. I do suspect drug and alcohol use. Can't say I've ever smelled anything or been able to say she looks drugged. I probably wouldn't recognize the signs anyway. She has contacted us about coming home but it will be with a list of demands like random drug testing, staying away from the boyfriend, attending school. We are to meet with a police officer tomorrow and she has to be here. I want the option of charging her if she doesn't start counseling and following the demands. I have asked the police about the rape charge and was told she would have to claim it was against her will. I will ask again tomorrow. I don't have high hopes about her changing. I dread her coming home, these last few days have been so calm for me. There is a bootcamp type school that is state paid for that her HS counselor is going to try to convince her about. She could finish high school next July if she completes the camp. I guess if she won't take the help offered then I have to look into another living situation until she is 18. I really can't take much more of the stress. Right now I can't imagine how I will be able to tolerate her in the house. I have ordered "Walking on Eggshells" from the library and am hoping to get ideas from there.</p><p>Thanks again and I will update as we go through our ordeal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="curlycallie, post: 307278, member: 7645"] Thank you for the warm welcome and replies. I do suspect drug and alcohol use. Can't say I've ever smelled anything or been able to say she looks drugged. I probably wouldn't recognize the signs anyway. She has contacted us about coming home but it will be with a list of demands like random drug testing, staying away from the boyfriend, attending school. We are to meet with a police officer tomorrow and she has to be here. I want the option of charging her if she doesn't start counseling and following the demands. I have asked the police about the rape charge and was told she would have to claim it was against her will. I will ask again tomorrow. I don't have high hopes about her changing. I dread her coming home, these last few days have been so calm for me. There is a bootcamp type school that is state paid for that her HS counselor is going to try to convince her about. She could finish high school next July if she completes the camp. I guess if she won't take the help offered then I have to look into another living situation until she is 18. I really can't take much more of the stress. Right now I can't imagine how I will be able to tolerate her in the house. I have ordered "Walking on Eggshells" from the library and am hoping to get ideas from there. Thanks again and I will update as we go through our ordeal. [/QUOTE]
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