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<blockquote data-quote="curlycallie" data-source="post: 307974" data-attributes="member: 7645"><p>As I've written earlier my difficult child is basically out of our control, she's like a feral animal. She and the boyfriend stole 2 ring sets and a diamond necklace from me and pawned them. These rings sets were her grandmother's and I was saving them for my 2 sons if they wanted to use them when they get married. Her grandmother adored her, she was the only granddaughter.</p><p>She also stole a large amount of cash from her brothers wallets. These were all in a locked cabinet because I haven't trusted her for at least a year. She came home last night because we told her she had to come home, go to school and stay away from the boyfriend. They were also told by the boyfriend father that they cannot see each other anymore. This was all in exchange for us not prosecuting them for theft. Well, she did go to school but was told to come home on the bus and she evidently was picked up by him. I'm sure they believe we would never actually charge them. My question to all of you is... would you be able to file the charges against your own child? She won't accept help willingly so I'm hoping a juvenile judge would work with us and send her somewhere to get help. It also will separate them of course. We have to charge both because they both participated. I don't think she realizes as a legal adult he will have this on his record forever. She, as a minor can have it erased. Any help you can give would be wonderful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="curlycallie, post: 307974, member: 7645"] As I've written earlier my difficult child is basically out of our control, she's like a feral animal. She and the boyfriend stole 2 ring sets and a diamond necklace from me and pawned them. These rings sets were her grandmother's and I was saving them for my 2 sons if they wanted to use them when they get married. Her grandmother adored her, she was the only granddaughter. She also stole a large amount of cash from her brothers wallets. These were all in a locked cabinet because I haven't trusted her for at least a year. She came home last night because we told her she had to come home, go to school and stay away from the boyfriend. They were also told by the boyfriend father that they cannot see each other anymore. This was all in exchange for us not prosecuting them for theft. Well, she did go to school but was told to come home on the bus and she evidently was picked up by him. I'm sure they believe we would never actually charge them. My question to all of you is... would you be able to file the charges against your own child? She won't accept help willingly so I'm hoping a juvenile judge would work with us and send her somewhere to get help. It also will separate them of course. We have to charge both because they both participated. I don't think she realizes as a legal adult he will have this on his record forever. She, as a minor can have it erased. Any help you can give would be wonderful. [/QUOTE]
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