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<blockquote data-quote="Loudad2" data-source="post: 596433" data-attributes="member: 16352"><p>If biomom pulled out when he was 14... what were his early years like? Chaotic? neglected? bounced around? or really stable? Any chance biomom used drugs or alcohol when she was expecting him? What kinds of dxes run on both sides of the family? (lots of problems "run in families", including Aspie/Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD))<p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000">Yes, he was neglected by his biomom. It was chaotic, violent at times and she did use drugs and alcohol. It all changed when she left. My home has been peaceful and loving then I have remarried and it has become even more so.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000">It hurts and puzzles me as to why he keeps pining for his mothers love even after she treated him the way she did. The damage has been done and I'm afraid it will take many years to be undone. I worry that this may be effecting his ability to have genuine relationships with people. He has been very cold and indifferent to his girlfriend and the ones before her. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000">This is a serious issue as it will only lead to a future of bad relationships,marriage and family issues. I pray he can get the help he needs and break the cycle to live a happy, productive and fufilling life.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Loudad2, post: 596433, member: 16352"] If biomom pulled out when he was 14... what were his early years like? Chaotic? neglected? bounced around? or really stable? Any chance biomom used drugs or alcohol when she was expecting him? What kinds of dxes run on both sides of the family? (lots of problems "run in families", including Aspie/Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD))[LEFT][COLOR=#000000] Yes, he was neglected by his biomom. It was chaotic, violent at times and she did use drugs and alcohol. It all changed when she left. My home has been peaceful and loving then I have remarried and it has become even more so. It hurts and puzzles me as to why he keeps pining for his mothers love even after she treated him the way she did. The damage has been done and I'm afraid it will take many years to be undone. I worry that this may be effecting his ability to have genuine relationships with people. He has been very cold and indifferent to his girlfriend and the ones before her. This is a serious issue as it will only lead to a future of bad relationships,marriage and family issues. I pray he can get the help he needs and break the cycle to live a happy, productive and fufilling life. [/COLOR][/LEFT] [/QUOTE]
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