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First of all you are not bad for feeling this way!! Second of all don't let anyone tell that if he was your biological child you would feel in different. I have similar issues but my children are all biological. 1 graduated from treatment (nonsexual) issues but treatment did help still seeing a therapist 1x a week. 2nd child is 16 and is in a treatment facility for sexual issues. I never left my kids home alone but my then 15 year old was sexually molesting my 10 year old daughter for 5 years. 2 1/2 years was under my roof. My kids were in therapy, my kids had mental health workers through the county. Now one even saw signs. You have to do what you need to keep your daughter safe. At the treatment center they have been talking about reunification. This scares the hell out of me. I need to keep my daughter safe. I still love my son but due to his actions I am not sure if he can come home.

<blockquote data-quote="Searching for answers" data-source="post: 729754" data-attributes="member: 22899"><p>First of all you are not bad for feeling this way!! Second of all don't let anyone tell that if he was your biological child you would feel in different. I have similar issues but my children are all biological. 1 graduated from treatment&nbsp; (nonsexual) issues but treatment did help still seeing a therapist 1x a week. 2nd child is 16 and is in a treatment facility for sexual issues. I never left my kids home alone but my then 15 year old was sexually molesting my 10 year old daughter for 5 years. 2 1/2 years was under my roof. My kids were in therapy, my kids had mental health workers through the county. Now one even saw signs. You have to do what you need to keep your daughter safe. At the treatment center they have been talking about reunification. This scares the hell out of me. I need to keep my daughter safe. I still love my son but due to his actions I am not sure if he can come home.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Searching for answers, post: 729754, member: 22899"] First of all you are not bad for feeling this way!! Second of all don't let anyone tell that if he was your biological child you would feel in different. I have similar issues but my children are all biological. 1 graduated from treatment (nonsexual) issues but treatment did help still seeing a therapist 1x a week. 2nd child is 16 and is in a treatment facility for sexual issues. I never left my kids home alone but my then 15 year old was sexually molesting my 10 year old daughter for 5 years. 2 1/2 years was under my roof. My kids were in therapy, my kids had mental health workers through the county. Now one even saw signs. You have to do what you need to keep your daughter safe. At the treatment center they have been talking about reunification. This scares the hell out of me. I need to keep my daughter safe. I still love my son but due to his actions I am not sure if he can come home. [/QUOTE]

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