Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
New Member......Need Help
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 729755" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi and welcome, Sumsky</p><p></p><p>BBU and SWOT have given you great advice.</p><p></p><p>None of this is your fault, but you seem to be left holding the bag on this. You are not overreacting.</p><p></p><p>I have a 12 year old daughter, as well as older step sons (they are adults, now).</p><p></p><p>If there was even a hint of any impropriety toward my daughter by anyone, that person would no longer live in my home. </p><p></p><p>If it were me, the choices would be that step-son leaves immediately, or my kids and I would be getting an apartment tomorrow. Your step-son’s counselor is way off base. I am concerned for the safety of your daughter and any friends she brings to the house. I would be extremely upset if I found that a parent of my daughter’s friend had this situation in the home and my daughter was potentially in danger.</p><p></p><p>You are the only person in this situation that seems to be on the side of the victims. Everyone else seems to be more concerned about the well-being of the perpetrator. Even if it is true that the young man has learned his lesson, and will never do this again, how can you know this is true? They want you to gamble with your daughter’s life that they are correct? The price is too high.</p><p></p><p>Trust your instincts.</p><p></p><p>Apple</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 729755, member: 16024"] Hi and welcome, Sumsky BBU and SWOT have given you great advice. None of this is your fault, but you seem to be left holding the bag on this. You are not overreacting. I have a 12 year old daughter, as well as older step sons (they are adults, now). If there was even a hint of any impropriety toward my daughter by anyone, that person would no longer live in my home. If it were me, the choices would be that step-son leaves immediately, or my kids and I would be getting an apartment tomorrow. Your step-son’s counselor is way off base. I am concerned for the safety of your daughter and any friends she brings to the house. I would be extremely upset if I found that a parent of my daughter’s friend had this situation in the home and my daughter was potentially in danger. You are the only person in this situation that seems to be on the side of the victims. Everyone else seems to be more concerned about the well-being of the perpetrator. Even if it is true that the young man has learned his lesson, and will never do this again, how can you know this is true? They want you to gamble with your daughter’s life that they are correct? The price is too high. Trust your instincts. Apple [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
New Member......Need Help
Top