Thank you BloodiedButUnbowed! I have started the steps to get out of the house. I do have an adult at my house 24/7 until I can get out. My daughter is my first priority. She has been staying with my parents a lot as she is not comfortable being at home if SS is there. And she has her own bedroom at their house. She loves spending time with my parents since they retired. She does come home when SS is not home or if she just wants a night or two at home. What is hard right now is that my 17 yo son does not want to leave at all! He knows what happened and why, but once again the family is a mess because of SS and once again he feels he is getting the short end of the stick. (My 17 yo is a great kid. Honors student with excellent grades, college bound, small group of the same close friends for last 10 years, all good kids) He is very upset and angry that we are moving out. He is refusing to go and feels it's not fair that the 2 innocent ones have to upset their home for the problem child. And that once again they have to sacrifice for problem child. I completely agree with my 17 yo, but have no choice if my husband refuses to send him out of our home. I can't leave my 17 yo behind and I have to get my 12 yo out.