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<blockquote data-quote="Sumsky" data-source="post: 729937" data-attributes="member: 22893"><p>Copabanana, I am so sorry you went through that. I continue to say that even though she was not harmed physically, she was violated! Her sense of security in her own home was taken from her. Her trust was broken. I’m sure you would agree with that. My husbands mother is insisting that we need to sit SS and daughter down and make them talk it out. (Daughter will not speak to or even look at SS.) mother in law keeps saying it is not good for them to not talk, they have to work it out. I did lose my cool with her the other day and told her that my daughter does not need to EVER speak to him again if she so chooses. I don’t care how that hurts him. This was a choice that HE made not her. This is a consequence of HIS actions not hers. Everyone all along has sheltered him from any consequences and now we are dealing with big issues because of it. She is the victim here. And a lot of victims can’t face their a court hearing. Yet she is expecting a 12 yo to face him ad talk to him?! Once again, her concern lies with SS because before this happened, daughter and SS were buddies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sumsky, post: 729937, member: 22893"] Copabanana, I am so sorry you went through that. I continue to say that even though she was not harmed physically, she was violated! Her sense of security in her own home was taken from her. Her trust was broken. I’m sure you would agree with that. My husbands mother is insisting that we need to sit SS and daughter down and make them talk it out. (Daughter will not speak to or even look at SS.) mother in law keeps saying it is not good for them to not talk, they have to work it out. I did lose my cool with her the other day and told her that my daughter does not need to EVER speak to him again if she so chooses. I don’t care how that hurts him. This was a choice that HE made not her. This is a consequence of HIS actions not hers. Everyone all along has sheltered him from any consequences and now we are dealing with big issues because of it. She is the victim here. And a lot of victims can’t face their a court hearing. Yet she is expecting a 12 yo to face him ad talk to him?! Once again, her concern lies with SS because before this happened, daughter and SS were buddies. [/QUOTE]
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