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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 729942" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>DO NOT sit your daughter down and make her talk to him as if this perp is her equal in being a victim and they must work it out. Insane! She is the only victim.</p><p></p><p>Get away from there. Your daughter needs to heal. My kids needed to heal. Away from the perp. Feeling safe. Knowing they would never see him again. Knowing without a doubt that what the boy did was unacceptable. That is what healed us as a family.</p><p></p><p>We were given a psychiatric/ pediatrician from CPS who specialized in sexual abuse and, for legal reasons, had to gently check both kids to make sure they were not penetrated but they were!l You have no idea how far this stepson perped on your daughter but we were NEVER told to have the family talk. Your in laws are making nothing out of possible rape. They are not professionals. They are biased narcissists.</p><p></p><p>Leave this toxic group. Take your daughter to a female psychiatrist who specializes in sexual abuse issues. Go outside of the area your in laws live in. You don't want any help to be tainted by others fear of their money and power. This is not about you or your son who will probably go to college next year anyway. It's about your daughter first. She needs help and space.</p><p></p><p>Your son will survive if you leave. Your daughter can't heal if you don't. And you are being guilted for being a protective mother. Get away from all of them. They are all sick.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 729942, member: 1550"] DO NOT sit your daughter down and make her talk to him as if this perp is her equal in being a victim and they must work it out. Insane! She is the only victim. Get away from there. Your daughter needs to heal. My kids needed to heal. Away from the perp. Feeling safe. Knowing they would never see him again. Knowing without a doubt that what the boy did was unacceptable. That is what healed us as a family. We were given a psychiatric/ pediatrician from CPS who specialized in sexual abuse and, for legal reasons, had to gently check both kids to make sure they were not penetrated but they were!l You have no idea how far this stepson perped on your daughter but we were NEVER told to have the family talk. Your in laws are making nothing out of possible rape. They are not professionals. They are biased narcissists. Leave this toxic group. Take your daughter to a female psychiatrist who specializes in sexual abuse issues. Go outside of the area your in laws live in. You don't want any help to be tainted by others fear of their money and power. This is not about you or your son who will probably go to college next year anyway. It's about your daughter first. She needs help and space. Your son will survive if you leave. Your daughter can't heal if you don't. And you are being guilted for being a protective mother. Get away from all of them. They are all sick. Love and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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