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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 730161" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>We had no choice. CPS and the county were wanting to know how far this boy went and since he was six years older, they wanted to press charhed. They insisted. It was not our idea or choice. The kind sexual abuse pediatrician didn't hurt her...I was there...and at least we knew the grim truth.</p><p></p><p>My kids did not tell all to anyone for about six months after the child was gone and on a sort of child jail/residentialial treatment center. It was her therapist she told as well as my son talking about it later. It was gradual. The therapy was very helpful...both children are healthy, well adjusted adults. The therapy helped push us all even closer together...we are a very tight foursome.</p><p></p><p>I am relieved that your daughter has someone she can talk to about this. That is so important. It will probably take time for her to talk if something more happened. Kids feel like abuse is their fault and feel guilty, especially if it is a family member. This much we learned and were told by professionals. It does take time.</p><p></p><p>I also must apologize for my own error. I am confusing your stepson with another teen who abused his younger sister for</p><p></p><p>At any rate I still feel that stepson needs to live in a different place...you can not take a chance. He was very eerily inappropriate both video taping showers and exposing himself at school. These ate not normal things. But You are doing very well. Just don't let the hub and in laws make you doubt your concern for your daughter vs. step son.</p><p></p><p>If CPS steps in things will probably get worse for SS. If not for his family power, he would have been reported already and CPS is very stern about sexual isues. I don't believe the name will affect CPS. They are powerful.</p><p></p><p>Nobody wants to punish SS. They want to give him treatment and hopefullt turn this around for him andand m sure the victims are safe and sound. And that sometimes means somebody is removed from the home. But so far CPS is not an issue....</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs to your family. Keep us updated!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 730161, member: 1550"] We had no choice. CPS and the county were wanting to know how far this boy went and since he was six years older, they wanted to press charhed. They insisted. It was not our idea or choice. The kind sexual abuse pediatrician didn't hurt her...I was there...and at least we knew the grim truth. My kids did not tell all to anyone for about six months after the child was gone and on a sort of child jail/residentialial treatment center. It was her therapist she told as well as my son talking about it later. It was gradual. The therapy was very helpful...both children are healthy, well adjusted adults. The therapy helped push us all even closer together...we are a very tight foursome. I am relieved that your daughter has someone she can talk to about this. That is so important. It will probably take time for her to talk if something more happened. Kids feel like abuse is their fault and feel guilty, especially if it is a family member. This much we learned and were told by professionals. It does take time. I also must apologize for my own error. I am confusing your stepson with another teen who abused his younger sister for At any rate I still feel that stepson needs to live in a different place...you can not take a chance. He was very eerily inappropriate both video taping showers and exposing himself at school. These ate not normal things. But You are doing very well. Just don't let the hub and in laws make you doubt your concern for your daughter vs. step son. If CPS steps in things will probably get worse for SS. If not for his family power, he would have been reported already and CPS is very stern about sexual isues. I don't believe the name will affect CPS. They are powerful. Nobody wants to punish SS. They want to give him treatment and hopefullt turn this around for him andand m sure the victims are safe and sound. And that sometimes means somebody is removed from the home. But so far CPS is not an issue.... Love and hugs to your family. Keep us updated!! [/QUOTE]
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