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<blockquote data-quote="Sumsky" data-source="post: 730164" data-attributes="member: 22893"><p>I agree that SS needs intensive treatment and that he needs out of our home. The residential treatment his pyschologist talked about is approximately 1 year give or take depending on his progress then a type of halfway house for a few months. At that point SS will be 18. I agree that I will never again be comfortable or allow my daughter around him. I feel that I have a good solid plan in place and that my daughter is protected. CPS is my last resort and I will only do that if my husband refuses the residential treatment. My in laws have a lot of influence in certain areas.... I’m not concerned that they could sway CPS. As far as the exam, I’m not worried about her being physically hurt. She is 12 almost 13. She will know why she is having the exam. Her counselor and I don’t want her to feel we are not believing her (she has told us nothing physically has happened) and forcing her to potentially have to face something she is not ready to face. And that is something CPS will force on her. I realize that CPS will fully investigate. But again I feel that forcing too much too soon on my daughter is not the best choice for her. Her counselor said that if the worst did happen, it could take her months or a year or more to be ready to talk about it. She has gone through enough already with just what I know. I will not force more on her. She needs to be able to set the pace for that. One way or another she will not have to face him again. Whether that is SS is removed from our home or my husband and I divorce.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sumsky, post: 730164, member: 22893"] I agree that SS needs intensive treatment and that he needs out of our home. The residential treatment his pyschologist talked about is approximately 1 year give or take depending on his progress then a type of halfway house for a few months. At that point SS will be 18. I agree that I will never again be comfortable or allow my daughter around him. I feel that I have a good solid plan in place and that my daughter is protected. CPS is my last resort and I will only do that if my husband refuses the residential treatment. My in laws have a lot of influence in certain areas.... I’m not concerned that they could sway CPS. As far as the exam, I’m not worried about her being physically hurt. She is 12 almost 13. She will know why she is having the exam. Her counselor and I don’t want her to feel we are not believing her (she has told us nothing physically has happened) and forcing her to potentially have to face something she is not ready to face. And that is something CPS will force on her. I realize that CPS will fully investigate. But again I feel that forcing too much too soon on my daughter is not the best choice for her. Her counselor said that if the worst did happen, it could take her months or a year or more to be ready to talk about it. She has gone through enough already with just what I know. I will not force more on her. She needs to be able to set the pace for that. One way or another she will not have to face him again. Whether that is SS is removed from our home or my husband and I divorce. [/QUOTE]
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