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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 730562" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Agree with many of the other responses you've received so far. SS is a predator regardless of what his psychologist and his very powerful great-grandparents have to say. I think to an extent the small town you live in may be as much of a problem as your husband's family. They have likely known SS from birth and pity him his biological mother's neglect and abandonment, and excuse him from all his deeds for this reason "because he is a Lannister" or whatever your husband's powerful surname is (don't tell us - protect your anonymity).</p><p></p><p>I hate to say that it sounds to me like all things considered, this is going to be a very long road. The fact that husband is going back and forth like a yo-yo depending on whose opinion he heard last, and that he is jumping on the bandwagon of whomever is most inclined to excuse/minimize stepson's behavior when he has a choice of believing professional A who sees the situation clearly and professional B who excuses SS, is a huge red flag in my eyes.</p><p></p><p>Depending on what the attorney tells you, you might want to start with a separation and then move to a divorce if things don't change. And I definitely think you and D need to leave that small town. It sounds like husband's family is like the Mafia and nobody dares cross them even if crimes are committed.</p><p></p><p>The only thing I can think of which might make a difference is if your D's friends, whom he also filmed, press charges. This might up the ante and force a firm stand to be taken. But who knows...the only thing you can control is yourself and D. As badly as D wants to come home the safest thing for her seems to be relocating far, far away from this evil, sick, perverted SS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 730562, member: 13303"] Agree with many of the other responses you've received so far. SS is a predator regardless of what his psychologist and his very powerful great-grandparents have to say. I think to an extent the small town you live in may be as much of a problem as your husband's family. They have likely known SS from birth and pity him his biological mother's neglect and abandonment, and excuse him from all his deeds for this reason "because he is a Lannister" or whatever your husband's powerful surname is (don't tell us - protect your anonymity). I hate to say that it sounds to me like all things considered, this is going to be a very long road. The fact that husband is going back and forth like a yo-yo depending on whose opinion he heard last, and that he is jumping on the bandwagon of whomever is most inclined to excuse/minimize stepson's behavior when he has a choice of believing professional A who sees the situation clearly and professional B who excuses SS, is a huge red flag in my eyes. Depending on what the attorney tells you, you might want to start with a separation and then move to a divorce if things don't change. And I definitely think you and D need to leave that small town. It sounds like husband's family is like the Mafia and nobody dares cross them even if crimes are committed. The only thing I can think of which might make a difference is if your D's friends, whom he also filmed, press charges. This might up the ante and force a firm stand to be taken. But who knows...the only thing you can control is yourself and D. As badly as D wants to come home the safest thing for her seems to be relocating far, far away from this evil, sick, perverted SS. [/QUOTE]
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