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<blockquote data-quote="Sumsky" data-source="post: 730720" data-attributes="member: 22893"><p>Just an update... waiting for the appointment with the case worker. Met with attorney yesterday. She also worked with CYS early in her career and still handles cases for them. She is no nonsense/to the point. She also came highly recommended by an ex family member that works in the criminal justice system (he got out of this family cause he said they are all crazy). At this point, we are giving it one week for this case worker. If they are recommending residential treatment and husband agrees to it, then we will do nothing else at this point. But if residential is not recommended or husband does not agree, she says ‘then we blow things up’ meaning we file a PFA against SS for daughters benefit (which will take him out of the house and daughter back in house) we meet with CYS and involve police. She feels SS will not see juvenile detention but will be on probation until at least age 18 and probably have to do inpatient treatment anyway. If we go this route, husband and I will be divorcing and selling home, etc. but I will be able to stay in the house with daughter and son until sold/divorce settled. So... waiting again!! It is just unbelievable to me the amount of waiting that is done and lack of resources for mental health until you are ‘in the system’. Maybe that is my fault for not just putting it in the system immediately. I honestly do feel that SS needs help with issues more than he needs in a juvenile detention and NOT getting the intensive help he needs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sumsky, post: 730720, member: 22893"] Just an update... waiting for the appointment with the case worker. Met with attorney yesterday. She also worked with CYS early in her career and still handles cases for them. She is no nonsense/to the point. She also came highly recommended by an ex family member that works in the criminal justice system (he got out of this family cause he said they are all crazy). At this point, we are giving it one week for this case worker. If they are recommending residential treatment and husband agrees to it, then we will do nothing else at this point. But if residential is not recommended or husband does not agree, she says ‘then we blow things up’ meaning we file a PFA against SS for daughters benefit (which will take him out of the house and daughter back in house) we meet with CYS and involve police. She feels SS will not see juvenile detention but will be on probation until at least age 18 and probably have to do inpatient treatment anyway. If we go this route, husband and I will be divorcing and selling home, etc. but I will be able to stay in the house with daughter and son until sold/divorce settled. So... waiting again!! It is just unbelievable to me the amount of waiting that is done and lack of resources for mental health until you are ‘in the system’. Maybe that is my fault for not just putting it in the system immediately. I honestly do feel that SS needs help with issues more than he needs in a juvenile detention and NOT getting the intensive help he needs. [/QUOTE]
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