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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731062" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>To take the heet off himself and blame you. I think it's normal for a disturbed, predatory person like him. I would pay no attention at all. People who know you for real and love you will know he is full of b.s .and people who don't know you don't matter. Anyway what if you don't cook? There is food in the house. He can cook. I was a good mother but not a motivated homemaker and many times my kids made their own meals as teens. They usually we're busy and on the run and not interested in a big meal, at least weekdays. CPS won't care if he says you don't cook as long as they check and there is food. I know it's not true but even if it was, it's not going to get anyone in trouble.</p><p></p><p>i like this: "What others think of me is none of my business."</p><p></p><p>My .02 is to stop paying any attention to this. It's an unnecessary distraction. Plan what you must do, leave the town you are in if you can and start the long hard but doable task of putting him behind you. You are clearly strong and balanced and he is not. He will eventually be found out, but that will be long after he is behind you. Your daughter needs to be away from this kid. You all do.</p><p></p><p>This is hard. It was hard for us after we had to send the boy who molested our littles away from home forever. There was guilt but immense healing and we are stronger and closer than ever now and my younger kids, now adults, know we protected them. Trust me, they appreciate it very much. Yours will too. I am positive that this kids abuse is partly why my daughter went into law enforcement. On the other hand, by looking at her abusers FB I know he is unemployed and his court records indicate he had been in prison.</p><p></p><p>What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I like this too and it has been true in my life and can be true in yours. Don't let this uber disturbed cocky kid get into your head. He is lying...it is what he probably always does. His family enables his lies and this won't change.</p><p></p><p>Kids always find out what's going on. So what? He did wrong. Also...and I don't mean to scare you, just inform you...what he recorded he could put all over the internet some day. He probably put copies of the videos other places besides his phone. Even if taping is all he did, he could easily destroy the lives of everyone he recorded. And I doubt it is all he did since he flashed his genitals at school. Extremely inappropriate at his age. Please...just get your daughter away from him and don't worry about his words. Words are cheap. Actions will win out. Save your kids. Save yourself. Let his dad deal with CPS if he thinks up bigger and more serious allegations that CPS MAY care about such as false abuse issues against YOU. He doesn't seem to get that if CPS gets involved at all, his secrets will be found out and he will be removed anyway...or worse your daughter will be if he lives there. This is a time bomb. Please get away from the situation. This can get dangerous with this kid popping off his mouth. His family may know it's in SS interest that they not call CPS, but a friend's mother could call them...and then it is over. CPS will care.</p><p></p><p>Love and light and hugs!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731062, member: 1550"] To take the heet off himself and blame you. I think it's normal for a disturbed, predatory person like him. I would pay no attention at all. People who know you for real and love you will know he is full of b.s .and people who don't know you don't matter. Anyway what if you don't cook? There is food in the house. He can cook. I was a good mother but not a motivated homemaker and many times my kids made their own meals as teens. They usually we're busy and on the run and not interested in a big meal, at least weekdays. CPS won't care if he says you don't cook as long as they check and there is food. I know it's not true but even if it was, it's not going to get anyone in trouble. i like this: "What others think of me is none of my business." My .02 is to stop paying any attention to this. It's an unnecessary distraction. Plan what you must do, leave the town you are in if you can and start the long hard but doable task of putting him behind you. You are clearly strong and balanced and he is not. He will eventually be found out, but that will be long after he is behind you. Your daughter needs to be away from this kid. You all do. This is hard. It was hard for us after we had to send the boy who molested our littles away from home forever. There was guilt but immense healing and we are stronger and closer than ever now and my younger kids, now adults, know we protected them. Trust me, they appreciate it very much. Yours will too. I am positive that this kids abuse is partly why my daughter went into law enforcement. On the other hand, by looking at her abusers FB I know he is unemployed and his court records indicate he had been in prison. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I like this too and it has been true in my life and can be true in yours. Don't let this uber disturbed cocky kid get into your head. He is lying...it is what he probably always does. His family enables his lies and this won't change. Kids always find out what's going on. So what? He did wrong. Also...and I don't mean to scare you, just inform you...what he recorded he could put all over the internet some day. He probably put copies of the videos other places besides his phone. Even if taping is all he did, he could easily destroy the lives of everyone he recorded. And I doubt it is all he did since he flashed his genitals at school. Extremely inappropriate at his age. Please...just get your daughter away from him and don't worry about his words. Words are cheap. Actions will win out. Save your kids. Save yourself. Let his dad deal with CPS if he thinks up bigger and more serious allegations that CPS MAY care about such as false abuse issues against YOU. He doesn't seem to get that if CPS gets involved at all, his secrets will be found out and he will be removed anyway...or worse your daughter will be if he lives there. This is a time bomb. Please get away from the situation. This can get dangerous with this kid popping off his mouth. His family may know it's in SS interest that they not call CPS, but a friend's mother could call them...and then it is over. CPS will care. Love and light and hugs!! [/QUOTE]
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