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<blockquote data-quote="Sumsky" data-source="post: 731845" data-attributes="member: 22893"><p>I’m relieved and hopeful once again... still a long road and it seems that every time I get my hopes up we go backward but this caseworker seems like he’s a no nonsense guy. The family hasn’t even asked about the latest appointment yet. They are very good at burying their head in the sand. SS spent the weekend with great grandparents so I’m sure my husband will be getting a call soon. Husband still feels that all these people will see that it was just a mistake and the evaluation will say the same. SS thinks it’s all good cause he says he’s not doing the psychosexual evaluation. He doesn’t realize what will happen if he refuses. We will be having two therapists doing family therapy at least twice a week as soon as everything is in place with paperwork. The therapists will even be going to my parents to work with them and my daughter. Husband is doing good in a lot of ways. He’s being honest with the caseworker even though he minimizes some of it. But the caseworker has kind of put it into perspective for my husband. That being said, husband and I had a very good weekend with my daughter and he seems to be coming around once again. Husband also told the caseworker that he wants the meeting through CASSP to be just us. He doesn’t want his family involved. That is a huge step for him as he has always relied on them to back him. Husband is also seeing more and more of how messed up the great grandparents are. Great grandparents having been allowing SS to drive their car on their property so he gets some experience for his test in August. They live beside a major roadway on a sharp turn. They have had numerous major accidents happen in the driveway because of the location. We have already told SS we will not allow him to take his test in August because he is not responsible enough to get behind the wheel. And again SS and great grandparents feel it’s not fair to him because my son was allowed to get his at 16. So my husband is seeing that they are already trying to undermine his authority once again. I guess patience does pay off a little. SS is back to showing his true colors even with discipline and all these appointments and counseling in place.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sumsky, post: 731845, member: 22893"] I’m relieved and hopeful once again... still a long road and it seems that every time I get my hopes up we go backward but this caseworker seems like he’s a no nonsense guy. The family hasn’t even asked about the latest appointment yet. They are very good at burying their head in the sand. SS spent the weekend with great grandparents so I’m sure my husband will be getting a call soon. Husband still feels that all these people will see that it was just a mistake and the evaluation will say the same. SS thinks it’s all good cause he says he’s not doing the psychosexual evaluation. He doesn’t realize what will happen if he refuses. We will be having two therapists doing family therapy at least twice a week as soon as everything is in place with paperwork. The therapists will even be going to my parents to work with them and my daughter. Husband is doing good in a lot of ways. He’s being honest with the caseworker even though he minimizes some of it. But the caseworker has kind of put it into perspective for my husband. That being said, husband and I had a very good weekend with my daughter and he seems to be coming around once again. Husband also told the caseworker that he wants the meeting through CASSP to be just us. He doesn’t want his family involved. That is a huge step for him as he has always relied on them to back him. Husband is also seeing more and more of how messed up the great grandparents are. Great grandparents having been allowing SS to drive their car on their property so he gets some experience for his test in August. They live beside a major roadway on a sharp turn. They have had numerous major accidents happen in the driveway because of the location. We have already told SS we will not allow him to take his test in August because he is not responsible enough to get behind the wheel. And again SS and great grandparents feel it’s not fair to him because my son was allowed to get his at 16. So my husband is seeing that they are already trying to undermine his authority once again. I guess patience does pay off a little. SS is back to showing his true colors even with discipline and all these appointments and counseling in place. [/QUOTE]
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