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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 737664" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well....legal or not, if I heard a boy who was being seen for sexual abuse issues was in my daughters program, she would leave. If he did anything to my daughter and I had not been told about him it would be war.</p><p></p><p> This scares daughter's mothers more than drugs, theft, etc. If he cant be around his sister, I dont want him around my daughter. It is not okay unless the girls who are of age and mothers of minors all gave permission. Never happen.</p><p></p><p>Now since great grandparents are against it, which to me is a blessing even if it is for other reasons, then you are right. It is a non issue. I only hope he can find counseling, which may not even help, in a more restricted setting where everything is recorded on camera.</p><p></p><p>When our 13 year old sexual offender was put in residential, he was caught on camera trying to offend and this was to a boy. To me this is the only degree of limit that will protect others from a person with sexual abuse issues. Its not just about him. Its about protecting others from him.</p><p></p><p>Copa you know I respect you so much. For all other problems it sounds like a great program. Our kids are used to scummy peers and if they are there they know how to handle them. I believe that probably some places are better than others, as with all organizations. I just dont like the idea of a boy with sexual issues, documented, around my girls. Mothers of girls have angsts that include them being sexually abused. For good reason. It is rampant and lately the new thing is to record girls perhaps showering, as SS did, and put it on the internet. Once its there, thousands can grab it and run. </p><p></p><p>I think this is too risky.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 737664, member: 1550"] Well....legal or not, if I heard a boy who was being seen for sexual abuse issues was in my daughters program, she would leave. If he did anything to my daughter and I had not been told about him it would be war. This scares daughter's mothers more than drugs, theft, etc. If he cant be around his sister, I dont want him around my daughter. It is not okay unless the girls who are of age and mothers of minors all gave permission. Never happen. Now since great grandparents are against it, which to me is a blessing even if it is for other reasons, then you are right. It is a non issue. I only hope he can find counseling, which may not even help, in a more restricted setting where everything is recorded on camera. When our 13 year old sexual offender was put in residential, he was caught on camera trying to offend and this was to a boy. To me this is the only degree of limit that will protect others from a person with sexual abuse issues. Its not just about him. Its about protecting others from him. Copa you know I respect you so much. For all other problems it sounds like a great program. Our kids are used to scummy peers and if they are there they know how to handle them. I believe that probably some places are better than others, as with all organizations. I just dont like the idea of a boy with sexual issues, documented, around my girls. Mothers of girls have angsts that include them being sexually abused. For good reason. It is rampant and lately the new thing is to record girls perhaps showering, as SS did, and put it on the internet. Once its there, thousands can grab it and run. I think this is too risky. [/QUOTE]
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