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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 737737" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi Sumsky.</p><p></p><p>Stepson will re-offend or not. Reporting the crime would not have stopped him, necessarily.. The authorities could have minimised it. You would have lost whatever leverage you do have.</p><p></p><p>You made a judgement call. You made a choice. You are free to make additional choices as the situation evolves.</p><p></p><p>There is no way we can know if stepsons behavior would be directed to any girl outside if the family. It could have been because she is who she is, his step sister, your daughter, that her position in HIS family was what motivated this. He could have been seeking to drive you (and her) out.</p><p></p><p>I do not necessarily think stepson will act out again like this, in terms of this kind of voyeuristic boundary violation. He is too smart and cunning and controlled.. this seems to be about power and strategic, to him. The desire to demonstrate that he calls the shots.</p><p></p><p>But he may be quite likely to keep up acting up against you guys by fomenting <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 737737, member: 18958"] Hi Sumsky. Stepson will re-offend or not. Reporting the crime would not have stopped him, necessarily.. The authorities could have minimised it. You would have lost whatever leverage you do have. You made a judgement call. You made a choice. You are free to make additional choices as the situation evolves. There is no way we can know if stepsons behavior would be directed to any girl outside if the family. It could have been because she is who she is, his step sister, your daughter, that her position in HIS family was what motivated this. He could have been seeking to drive you (and her) out. I do not necessarily think stepson will act out again like this, in terms of this kind of voyeuristic boundary violation. He is too smart and cunning and controlled.. this seems to be about power and strategic, to him. The desire to demonstrate that he calls the shots. But he may be quite likely to keep up acting up against you guys by fomenting :censored2:. [/QUOTE]
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