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<blockquote data-quote="Sumsky" data-source="post: 741507" data-attributes="member: 22893"><p>I have no idea at this point who makes the call for inpatient or how long this will take. There is so much up in the air. Therapists are having a hard time making husband see the situation for what it really is. He still wants to ‘protect’ SS from the consequences. He still keeps saying SS is not a bad kid, he is just making some bad decisions. He still feels that I just don’t want to deal with him. The therapists have tried to get him to see things from my perspective, from my daughters perspective.... I am hopeful that between CYS and therapists that it will be taken out of husbands hands. And that is how I understood what the therapists were saying. That being said, CYS for our county is a real wild card. So that concerns me too. I really think husband wants SS to go and knows he needs to go but would carry too much guilt to be the one that does it. I think he wants someone to do it for him. </p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, our trip can not be changed. There is a group of 30 of us going. One of our best friends are renewing their vows and my husband is ‘best man’. We feel that no matter what we choose for vacation, we are letting someone down.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sumsky, post: 741507, member: 22893"] I have no idea at this point who makes the call for inpatient or how long this will take. There is so much up in the air. Therapists are having a hard time making husband see the situation for what it really is. He still wants to ‘protect’ SS from the consequences. He still keeps saying SS is not a bad kid, he is just making some bad decisions. He still feels that I just don’t want to deal with him. The therapists have tried to get him to see things from my perspective, from my daughters perspective.... I am hopeful that between CYS and therapists that it will be taken out of husbands hands. And that is how I understood what the therapists were saying. That being said, CYS for our county is a real wild card. So that concerns me too. I really think husband wants SS to go and knows he needs to go but would carry too much guilt to be the one that does it. I think he wants someone to do it for him. Unfortunately, our trip can not be changed. There is a group of 30 of us going. One of our best friends are renewing their vows and my husband is ‘best man’. We feel that no matter what we choose for vacation, we are letting someone down. [/QUOTE]
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