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Copabanana I do understand what you are saying. I have been back and forth with this so many times lately. On one hand I do feel for him I do know he needs so much help, I do think the therapists are getting through to him on some level because I do think he felt the panic this time, he felt the damage but only to himself. On the other I am so angry and frustrated that it makes it hard for me to even be around him. When I see him act like nothing even happened and life is fine then I question again if he even knows or cares what anyone else has been through all week. He honestly seems like since his friend is getting his headphones replaced that all is fine now. He doesn’t understand why he won’t be invited back to their house or why other friends may not want him to stay at their house. He seems that since we have the phone back then all is fine with that situation. (He doesn’t even know that CYS has to investigate yet.)So either he doesn’t understand or can’t understand. Hopefully those answers come to us with the test results. And you are right, I need to just wait a lil bit longer.... I guess it’s hard to understand how someone can have so lil care or understanding of the magnitude of the situation.

<blockquote data-quote="Sumsky" data-source="post: 741545" data-attributes="member: 22893"><p>Copabanana I do understand what you are saying.&nbsp; I have been back and forth with this so many times lately.&nbsp; On one hand I do feel for him I do know he needs so much help, I do think the therapists are getting through to him on some level because I do think he felt the panic this time, he felt the damage but only to himself.&nbsp; On the other I am so angry and frustrated that it makes it hard for me to even be around him.&nbsp; When I see him act like nothing even happened and life is fine then I question again if he even knows or cares what anyone else has been through all week.&nbsp; He honestly seems like since his friend is getting his headphones replaced that all is fine now. He doesn’t understand why he won’t be invited back to their house or why other friends may not want him to stay at their house. He seems that since we have the phone back then all is fine with that situation.&nbsp; (He doesn’t even know that CYS has to investigate yet.)So either he doesn’t understand or can’t understand.&nbsp; Hopefully those answers come to us with the test results.&nbsp; And you are right, I need to just wait a lil bit longer.... I guess it’s hard to understand how someone can have so lil care or understanding of the magnitude of the situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Sumsky, post: 741545, member: 22893"] Copabanana I do understand what you are saying. I have been back and forth with this so many times lately. On one hand I do feel for him I do know he needs so much help, I do think the therapists are getting through to him on some level because I do think he felt the panic this time, he felt the damage but only to himself. On the other I am so angry and frustrated that it makes it hard for me to even be around him. When I see him act like nothing even happened and life is fine then I question again if he even knows or cares what anyone else has been through all week. He honestly seems like since his friend is getting his headphones replaced that all is fine now. He doesn’t understand why he won’t be invited back to their house or why other friends may not want him to stay at their house. He seems that since we have the phone back then all is fine with that situation. (He doesn’t even know that CYS has to investigate yet.)So either he doesn’t understand or can’t understand. Hopefully those answers come to us with the test results. And you are right, I need to just wait a lil bit longer.... I guess it’s hard to understand how someone can have so lil care or understanding of the magnitude of the situation. [/QUOTE]

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