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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 741586" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My troubled son has never been in jail. He cares about his own skin and wont break the law....unless he is sure he can get away with it. I think he may have done things when younger. And it is a fact that he ruined any chance of a relationship with anyone in the family because they are afraid of him and find his behavior unacceptable. So this leaves my grandson, whom even I barely know, without an extended family. These are consequences of low/no empathy. You oftrn end up alone. You repel others. You cant keep a SO. You cant build a loving family if you dont love.</p><p></p><p>Many without empathy dont WANT people so they dont care. Some care so they try to act better with others. Narcicists can like an audience.</p><p></p><p>There is a forum called psychiatric Central.</p><p></p><p>That site has two interesting sub forums. One is for people who have Antisocial Personality Disorder to post and talk. It is scary but informative. One is for Narcicistic Personality Disorder. That forum has the same purpose. I have read both. Scary, but this is them talking to each other. In one post a man asked others how they act sad at funerals because he always wants to laugh while at one. Thats an example. Dont search this forum out if you scare easily but it is there for all who would like a peek. Or it WAS there several years ago. I checked it out after R. had been found doing what he did, which was a while back.</p><p></p><p>A lack of empathy for any reason is dangerous. Many antisocials kill nobody but do white collar crimes such as steal from the family. Think Maddox (I think that is his name). Or they sexually offend. Or go overboard with porn or get involved with child porn. What they don't do is know how to love. You cant teach an emotion.</p><p></p><p>Thank you, Deni for explaining autism. These kids tend to have VERY rigid thinking of right and wrong and although they may not be able to express or show empathy, most are marshmellows. Very kindhearted. I have known a ton because I like support groups and was in one for autistics after my son was diagnosed.They tend to be innocent and young for their ages...it is both a communication disorder and a developmental delay. They tend to get picked on. The parents talked problems but nobody said their kid was mean or couldnt love etc. The biggest problem was meltdowns with some kids.</p><p></p><p>I will stick with that nobody knows for sure why anyone acts like they fo. Psychiatry hasnt found that blood test or brain scan yet. So if somebody acts out dangerously in my opinion its better to be safe than sorry around them. Or else one can be badly hurt in some way but then its too late.</p><p></p><p>Sumsky, watch your own kids. Being careful hurts nobody. </p><p></p><p>Copa, your son is nothing like this. Most adult kids who bring us here do have empathy, ususlly tons, but are just lost or struggling. Some act badly due to drug abuse snd change for the best when they quit.. Your son sounds very sweet. Troubled yes. But sweet.</p><p></p><p>Have a wonderful day!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 741586, member: 1550"] My troubled son has never been in jail. He cares about his own skin and wont break the law....unless he is sure he can get away with it. I think he may have done things when younger. And it is a fact that he ruined any chance of a relationship with anyone in the family because they are afraid of him and find his behavior unacceptable. So this leaves my grandson, whom even I barely know, without an extended family. These are consequences of low/no empathy. You oftrn end up alone. You repel others. You cant keep a SO. You cant build a loving family if you dont love. Many without empathy dont WANT people so they dont care. Some care so they try to act better with others. Narcicists can like an audience. There is a forum called psychiatric Central. That site has two interesting sub forums. One is for people who have Antisocial Personality Disorder to post and talk. It is scary but informative. One is for Narcicistic Personality Disorder. That forum has the same purpose. I have read both. Scary, but this is them talking to each other. In one post a man asked others how they act sad at funerals because he always wants to laugh while at one. Thats an example. Dont search this forum out if you scare easily but it is there for all who would like a peek. Or it WAS there several years ago. I checked it out after R. had been found doing what he did, which was a while back. A lack of empathy for any reason is dangerous. Many antisocials kill nobody but do white collar crimes such as steal from the family. Think Maddox (I think that is his name). Or they sexually offend. Or go overboard with porn or get involved with child porn. What they don't do is know how to love. You cant teach an emotion. Thank you, Deni for explaining autism. These kids tend to have VERY rigid thinking of right and wrong and although they may not be able to express or show empathy, most are marshmellows. Very kindhearted. I have known a ton because I like support groups and was in one for autistics after my son was diagnosed.They tend to be innocent and young for their ages...it is both a communication disorder and a developmental delay. They tend to get picked on. The parents talked problems but nobody said their kid was mean or couldnt love etc. The biggest problem was meltdowns with some kids. I will stick with that nobody knows for sure why anyone acts like they fo. Psychiatry hasnt found that blood test or brain scan yet. So if somebody acts out dangerously in my opinion its better to be safe than sorry around them. Or else one can be badly hurt in some way but then its too late. Sumsky, watch your own kids. Being careful hurts nobody. Copa, your son is nothing like this. Most adult kids who bring us here do have empathy, ususlly tons, but are just lost or struggling. Some act badly due to drug abuse snd change for the best when they quit.. Your son sounds very sweet. Troubled yes. But sweet. Have a wonderful day! [/QUOTE]
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