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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 742310" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>For you Sumsky this is a win-win however is the short term pain.</p><p></p><p>You can only do what you can do. You have tried every single step of the way to do the right thing for everybody. If your husband chooses the easier path which would be to bail, he would be bailing on himself. His son, his marriage and his family.</p><p></p><p>How could you do it alone, without his partnership? The marriage would have collapsed.</p><p></p><p>It may be he is in overload and he will find his strength and responsibility. But you know where you stand. It is with your daughter. Either within your family as it is constituted now or leaving. The choice will have been made for you by your husband, by his own resolve. That he is in effect, <em>leave if you don't like it</em>, is all too human. I hope he can get past it.</p><p></p><p>Either way, you are made in the shade. You have been clear. You have been supportive. You have been selfless. You have been strong and steady. But it hurts the thought your husband may not come through for you and for himself. But better to know. I hope he shows up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 742310, member: 18958"] For you Sumsky this is a win-win however is the short term pain. You can only do what you can do. You have tried every single step of the way to do the right thing for everybody. If your husband chooses the easier path which would be to bail, he would be bailing on himself. His son, his marriage and his family. How could you do it alone, without his partnership? The marriage would have collapsed. It may be he is in overload and he will find his strength and responsibility. But you know where you stand. It is with your daughter. Either within your family as it is constituted now or leaving. The choice will have been made for you by your husband, by his own resolve. That he is in effect, [I]leave if you don't like it[/I], is all too human. I hope he can get past it. Either way, you are made in the shade. You have been clear. You have been supportive. You have been selfless. You have been strong and steady. But it hurts the thought your husband may not come through for you and for himself. But better to know. I hope he shows up. [/QUOTE]
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