Copa...if you had s daughter this had happened to or God forbid if this had happened to your son, because sexual acts do happen to boys too, you wouldnt be caring about this boy's age or what psychologists said. You would just want one thing....that he keep the hello away from your child and get treatment or discipline somewhere far from your child. Mothers do not listen politely to things about 15 year olds, which is older than her daughter, who sexually violate their girls. Especially girls. Im sorry. This marriage can only endure if the man agrees to keep his son away from her daughter. There is no chance of family here. A family needs to enjoy Christmas together.
I have never heard of a mother whose younger child was violated who was okay with her child ever being around the offender again. I also sadly know a lot of adults who were violated, and sometimes it was by a minor brother. It destriys families and is never just forgiven and forgotten, 15 or older.
Copa you will have to take my word that it doesnt work.
Or not.
I cant stop you from thinking this is not huge because he is 15....but it is. And Sumsky could lose her daughter if she gives this boy who violated her a chance. And to be fair maybe you WOULD be the rare motjer who would let your son be around his offender again if you heard the right psycholigical words. But psychiatry is not absolute fact and I totally dont think most parents would care about what the offender's psychologist decided. Their child is hurt. That puts us in protective mode.
I think Sumsky has weighed it all and is in mother mode. Mothers first and foremost want their kids to be safe. For sure. The SS is his father's problem, not hers. Her goal is to protect her child. There is NO way to be sure her daughter can be sure if being safe around SS.
Fortunately, since this boy is not her son, she doesnt need to feel split.
Love snd light!
