Been in therapy since October 2015 with a wonderful woman. it DOES help. The Special Education Director of our school system tole me that my son was in the top 3% of the complicated kids in the school system and she offered to pay for counseling 100%. And she has.
And I'm not to tired for marriage counseling, we've tried. He's not willing. He is happy to be complacent, and doesn't want to change. He has no friends or relationships. I believe he is Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) as well, and just was able to hide some of these things while we were dating (and of course I really did not understand autism/Asperger's back then) Financially, I cannot make it at this point without his income, so I'm kind of "stuck".