Yes, this was an issue. He stopped, or hasn't gotten caught as his room is not "private", he has an interlock device on his car, and we have a breathalyzer we use randomly.
I agree! My husband and I are discussing what we want the non-negotiables to be and what the consequences will be.
Thank you, I have talked with my son's therapist a few times and it has been good. I definitely need to continue seeing him or find a new one.
It is definitely tough stuff! Thank you for your help 
