SMOT, yes, I agree! He does have a job. It's seasonal and part time. If he continues with it, maybe it would give him some confidence?
I posted on my other thread more in detail. He has an evaluation appointment in 4 days. He has therapy soon. He has has an appointment to check his thyroid and DNA. As of now, he is agreeing to this. As of now he agrees he is abusive and wrong.
IF he has a true personality disorder and IF he attempts to better himself while not ranting and raving and screaming at me, he will be allowed in our house. I am just now learning about engaging vs disengagement and I feel like that could definitely help.
I can't control my son. I am constantly telling myself this and reading about engagement and what to say/not say.
