Hi Acacia and Com, Thank you so much for your posts and honesty. I agree, it is hard, so very hard. Our d cs seem to have a very different way of looking at things.
We try to help whenever we can,(without enabling) and look for a bright spot indicating change.
I am sorry for your troubles, COM, it hardly seems fair. I guess the advice to slow...way....down, and really think things out holds true. When we find ourselves thinking more about our d cs problem then they do, a step back is good. Its like an artist working on a huge mural. Up close and personal can draw us in more than we imagined. Taking a breather and stepping back, puts the whole picture into perspective.
Amen. Thank you COM, this is a good reminder.
My thoughts are with you both.
So sorry for your heart ache.
So sorry for all of our heart aches.
I think this journey we are on
ranks right up there with the hardest roads known to man.
Take care and breathe deep healing breaths.
Peace to you.
(((HUGS)))
leafy
