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<blockquote data-quote="maverik767" data-source="post: 416776" data-attributes="member: 11529"><p>Thank you all for your replys and insight...We only took away all the agressive and violent toys not all his toys, we are trying to keep all the agression away from him. nvts...at first the doctor thought he might have aspergers but in the following months and a little over a year already almost 2 he doesnt think he has that. Hitting any child in wrong and the boundaries were set and he crossed the line. I have been in his life since he was 21/2-3yrs old and his so called father aka sperm donor hasnt been in his life since he was 18months old. His "father" also has mental issues so it explains alot but dealing with N (the 5yr old) is so fustrating and I dont want him kicked out of school or worse. I tell him all the time I love him and try and play with him. I will look into that book and read it cause right now Ill try just about anything besides just ignorning it. Hes been on Intuniv for about 2months and the doctor has just increased his dosage from 2mg to 3mg, we need to get the 3mg filled so he hasnt been on it yet. The worst part of all of this besides the physical attributes of what he is doing is that it is causing an extreme amount of stress between me and his mother and is taking away a lot of attention from his older brother who also deserves attention. I'm really torn and dont know what to do. If anyone is in NYC(queens) and knows of a place that does family counseling and takes empire BCBS please let me know cause we want to get him and all of us into counseling. thanks for all the help so far.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="maverik767, post: 416776, member: 11529"] Thank you all for your replys and insight...We only took away all the agressive and violent toys not all his toys, we are trying to keep all the agression away from him. nvts...at first the doctor thought he might have aspergers but in the following months and a little over a year already almost 2 he doesnt think he has that. Hitting any child in wrong and the boundaries were set and he crossed the line. I have been in his life since he was 21/2-3yrs old and his so called father aka sperm donor hasnt been in his life since he was 18months old. His "father" also has mental issues so it explains alot but dealing with N (the 5yr old) is so fustrating and I dont want him kicked out of school or worse. I tell him all the time I love him and try and play with him. I will look into that book and read it cause right now Ill try just about anything besides just ignorning it. Hes been on Intuniv for about 2months and the doctor has just increased his dosage from 2mg to 3mg, we need to get the 3mg filled so he hasnt been on it yet. The worst part of all of this besides the physical attributes of what he is doing is that it is causing an extreme amount of stress between me and his mother and is taking away a lot of attention from his older brother who also deserves attention. I'm really torn and dont know what to do. If anyone is in NYC(queens) and knows of a place that does family counseling and takes empire BCBS please let me know cause we want to get him and all of us into counseling. thanks for all the help so far. [/QUOTE]
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