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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 533025" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Good, hope it helps. </p><p></p><p>There are a ton of alternatives and tweaks so dont reinvent the wheel....throw the problem out here and many of us have tried different things which you then can morph to what works for you!</p><p></p><p>A basic thing that helps many is to use a </p><p></p><p>First ____________________ (can write it as 1st____________), THEN (or 2nd)___________________</p><p></p><p>the first/then system can be done verbally holding up a finger too when you are out like at a restaurant etc. Mom, can I go to the prize machine??? First, eat Then, prize machine. Once this gets to be routine, esp if you have a non verbal signal paired with it, it can become another security phrase, comfortable etc. (and then again, it can also become an anger trigger so be careful to say it in a cheerful voice, smiling, and in a simple way, not using the MOM voice/tone....LOL)</p><p></p><p>I think ktllc has been facing some similar issues more recently.....she probably has quite a few ideas too!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 533025, member: 12886"] Good, hope it helps. There are a ton of alternatives and tweaks so dont reinvent the wheel....throw the problem out here and many of us have tried different things which you then can morph to what works for you! A basic thing that helps many is to use a First ____________________ (can write it as 1st____________), THEN (or 2nd)___________________ the first/then system can be done verbally holding up a finger too when you are out like at a restaurant etc. Mom, can I go to the prize machine??? First, eat Then, prize machine. Once this gets to be routine, esp if you have a non verbal signal paired with it, it can become another security phrase, comfortable etc. (and then again, it can also become an anger trigger so be careful to say it in a cheerful voice, smiling, and in a simple way, not using the MOM voice/tone....LOL) I think ktllc has been facing some similar issues more recently.....she probably has quite a few ideas too! [/QUOTE]
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