I am thankful to find this site and support. bth way of an intro, I have 3 kids, and one the 8 yo has possible odd, which we are seeking help with. my main question is this: my psychiatric is thinking of a rewards system. One daily reward for the completed routine during the day. If the rur les of the house are followed (there are only 4 right now) then Difficult Child would get a star; after 5 stars, she would get a reward. the trouble is, my child just won't follow the rules. she has earned 3 stars, then that was it. never 5. also, I'd noticed a sort of cycle; when she gets a star, it's like she starts to go downhill again. i'm thinking a different appoach might be needed. i see the psychiatric tuesday. it has been 4 weeks since the last appoint. Any ideas on all this? what do you think?