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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 745108" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>Newstart, I’m so sorry she is putting you through this. I think it would be good to get her out of there. If she can make rent there, she can make rent somewhere else. And it is easier when you know longer have any financial/legal/contractual ties. Let her habits be someone else’s problem, somewhere where none of the neighbors have your number! I have no desire to see or know the details of how my two off track ones live day to day. Ive picked them up from various places in rough parts of the city but am never invited inside and I don’t want to see. I’m sure it would be appalling. I think for many of our kids the disorder around them reflects the disorder in their minds. I could not live with it ... and I don’t have to. Neither should you, even if it’s in a separate rental property. When she’s renting from you it makes it your problem. I find it’s easier to maintain good relationships with mine when I am much less involved in their lives. </p><p></p><p>Good luck to you. I hope 2019 is your year to reclaim your life for YOU!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 745108, member: 23349"] Newstart, I’m so sorry she is putting you through this. I think it would be good to get her out of there. If she can make rent there, she can make rent somewhere else. And it is easier when you know longer have any financial/legal/contractual ties. Let her habits be someone else’s problem, somewhere where none of the neighbors have your number! I have no desire to see or know the details of how my two off track ones live day to day. Ive picked them up from various places in rough parts of the city but am never invited inside and I don’t want to see. I’m sure it would be appalling. I think for many of our kids the disorder around them reflects the disorder in their minds. I could not live with it ... and I don’t have to. Neither should you, even if it’s in a separate rental property. When she’s renting from you it makes it your problem. I find it’s easier to maintain good relationships with mine when I am much less involved in their lives. Good luck to you. I hope 2019 is your year to reclaim your life for YOU! [/QUOTE]
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