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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 745291" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>I want to thank all of you for such good advice. A lot has happened since my last post. My daughter's neighbor screaming at her sent her into high mania. It really shocked her to the core. She came over to my home crying and trying to blame it on me and felt horrible because I did not stick up for her. I told her that he was tired of putting up with her pig pen life style and he just could not take it anymore. I do make checks to the inside of her house and it is picked up, my daughter just hates yard work. My daughter was over the top manic and non stop crying at my house, her boyfriend was worried about her so he came over. I let the boyfriend in and we all talked. We had a good and progressive talk. We all agree that my daughter is 'mushrooming' us meaning keeping everyone in the dark and lying about everything. Boyfriend said that he thinks she wants us to all stay apart so we can't compare notes. When my daughter tells a lie we now call it 'mushrooming' it helps her not become so manic when we use the word lie. When I call her on a lie she goes balistic and it gets very ugly. I see boyfriend called her on a few 'mushrooms' while they were over. For the first time ever the boyfriend made some sense, I got the very weird feeling that he actually feels sorry for my husband and me. My daughters mania was some of the worse that I have seen in years. We did end up having peace but I am wore out to the bone. I went over to daughters home today and the yard looked good and inside was clean and put together. I hope the neighbor screaming at her got her attention. This rollercoaster ride is horrible. January rent was paid. If they could just hold on for a few more years the house will be paid in full. This last mania was so severe, I am glad it happend over the holidays when she had time off from work, I am positive she would have lost her job had she been around her co workers. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I saw and felt a genuine change in the boyfriend. I could tell that he was trying. I know the both of them keep each other in complete confusion and turmoil but I think he is wanting the madness to end and does not know how to make it end. We exchanged phone numbers, first time in 9 years. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>It is so odd to see the same patterns in my daughter as I saw in my disordered mother in law. Same ugly words, making up stuff to justify their ugly behavior. It is truly horrible.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I have so many mixed emotions going on. I do know that in the depth of my heart that I seek peace among us. I desperately want peace and harmony. I will see what all changes in the next few months.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 745291, member: 22416"] [I]I want to thank all of you for such good advice. A lot has happened since my last post. My daughter's neighbor screaming at her sent her into high mania. It really shocked her to the core. She came over to my home crying and trying to blame it on me and felt horrible because I did not stick up for her. I told her that he was tired of putting up with her pig pen life style and he just could not take it anymore. I do make checks to the inside of her house and it is picked up, my daughter just hates yard work. My daughter was over the top manic and non stop crying at my house, her boyfriend was worried about her so he came over. I let the boyfriend in and we all talked. We had a good and progressive talk. We all agree that my daughter is 'mushrooming' us meaning keeping everyone in the dark and lying about everything. Boyfriend said that he thinks she wants us to all stay apart so we can't compare notes. When my daughter tells a lie we now call it 'mushrooming' it helps her not become so manic when we use the word lie. When I call her on a lie she goes balistic and it gets very ugly. I see boyfriend called her on a few 'mushrooms' while they were over. For the first time ever the boyfriend made some sense, I got the very weird feeling that he actually feels sorry for my husband and me. My daughters mania was some of the worse that I have seen in years. We did end up having peace but I am wore out to the bone. I went over to daughters home today and the yard looked good and inside was clean and put together. I hope the neighbor screaming at her got her attention. This rollercoaster ride is horrible. January rent was paid. If they could just hold on for a few more years the house will be paid in full. This last mania was so severe, I am glad it happend over the holidays when she had time off from work, I am positive she would have lost her job had she been around her co workers. I saw and felt a genuine change in the boyfriend. I could tell that he was trying. I know the both of them keep each other in complete confusion and turmoil but I think he is wanting the madness to end and does not know how to make it end. We exchanged phone numbers, first time in 9 years. It is so odd to see the same patterns in my daughter as I saw in my disordered mother in law. Same ugly words, making up stuff to justify their ugly behavior. It is truly horrible. I have so many mixed emotions going on. I do know that in the depth of my heart that I seek peace among us. I desperately want peace and harmony. I will see what all changes in the next few months. [/I] [/QUOTE]
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