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<blockquote data-quote="wmh4bama" data-source="post: 388255"><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Last night topped it all. He has never been this bad! I was scared he was going to hit me or do something to himself. When we got home, he asked what's for supper, Chicken & Okra....that set him off. He said I don't want Chicken, you fix chicken every night. I said we have not had chicken since last week. That's when it all started, the mouth I don't chicken, I want pizza, on and on. Sent him to his room to finish supper. He calmed down quickly until we went to sit down. He doesn't like chicken and he was not eating the nasty okra. That I was mean for "forcing" him to eat gross stuff! (LOL---I'm just horrible ain't I?) Not eating it, I said that's fine you can sit there till morning if you choose, I will not argue with you over chicken. HE finally stated eating but complaining, of course that sat him off again. I told him if he opened his mouth one more time complaining, he was getting his TV taken away for the night. He sit quietly for a few minutes, decided he would only pick the chicken apart and I wouldn't notice. Of course I did and told him he had to eat it all. (he's 9 at 51lbs trying to get him gain weight) He kept complaining, I took TV away, he said that's not fair. Asked me every bite if he had eaten enough. FINALLY he finish. He tries to sneak by me to the den to watch TV. Told him he could go in there to play with his toys but the TV was going off for the night. That's where it got exploded! I sent him to his room to calm down. He then went into a mode I've never seen before to this extent. Throwing things in his room, slammed his door, kicking it, knocking pictures off the wall I open the door so I could see what was going on and told him to calm down and he could come out, that set him off again. Started throwing the shoes at me in the hallway, kicking the wall...he destroyed his room, this went on for over an hour. He I sat in the living and cried. It was like seeing "fire" in his eyes. I was so scared to even go back in there, what was he going to do to me. I ended up calling a guy friend of mine over to help me, he did eventually get him to calm down to a point that you could talk to him. The friend brought him in the living and asked him why he insisted on doing these things to get me upset to the point I cried. He said I don't know. The friend had to leave, he got in the shower, when he got out ate his snack was just as nice as a little boy should be, when done and sat with me on the couch. Supernanny happen to be on and he started talking about the little boy on TV and that he was not like him. (LOL) I said that was you but worse. Anyways by this time it was bedtime and that went very smooth. I waited till he was asleep and went and fell in the bed. I am so emotionally drained today, it's hard to function at work.</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 10px"> </span></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wmh4bama, post: 388255"] [FONT=Arial][SIZE=2]Last night topped it all. He has never been this bad! I was scared he was going to hit me or do something to himself. When we got home, he asked what's for supper, Chicken & Okra....that set him off. He said I don't want Chicken, you fix chicken every night. I said we have not had chicken since last week. That's when it all started, the mouth I don't chicken, I want pizza, on and on. Sent him to his room to finish supper. He calmed down quickly until we went to sit down. He doesn't like chicken and he was not eating the nasty okra. That I was mean for "forcing" him to eat gross stuff! (LOL---I'm just horrible ain't I?) Not eating it, I said that's fine you can sit there till morning if you choose, I will not argue with you over chicken. HE finally stated eating but complaining, of course that sat him off again. I told him if he opened his mouth one more time complaining, he was getting his TV taken away for the night. He sit quietly for a few minutes, decided he would only pick the chicken apart and I wouldn't notice. Of course I did and told him he had to eat it all. (he's 9 at 51lbs trying to get him gain weight) He kept complaining, I took TV away, he said that's not fair. Asked me every bite if he had eaten enough. FINALLY he finish. He tries to sneak by me to the den to watch TV. Told him he could go in there to play with his toys but the TV was going off for the night. That's where it got exploded! I sent him to his room to calm down. He then went into a mode I've never seen before to this extent. Throwing things in his room, slammed his door, kicking it, knocking pictures off the wall I open the door so I could see what was going on and told him to calm down and he could come out, that set him off again. Started throwing the shoes at me in the hallway, kicking the wall...he destroyed his room, this went on for over an hour. He I sat in the living and cried. It was like seeing "fire" in his eyes. I was so scared to even go back in there, what was he going to do to me. I ended up calling a guy friend of mine over to help me, he did eventually get him to calm down to a point that you could talk to him. The friend brought him in the living and asked him why he insisted on doing these things to get me upset to the point I cried. He said I don't know. The friend had to leave, he got in the shower, when he got out ate his snack was just as nice as a little boy should be, when done and sat with me on the couch. Supernanny happen to be on and he started talking about the little boy on TV and that he was not like him. (LOL) I said that was you but worse. Anyways by this time it was bedtime and that went very smooth. I waited till he was asleep and went and fell in the bed. I am so emotionally drained today, it's hard to function at work.[/SIZE][/FONT] [LEFT][FONT=Arial][SIZE=2] [/SIZE][/FONT][/LEFT] [/QUOTE]
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