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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 378622" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>There is still a lot you can do for your son. The neighbour shouldn't have yelled. It achieves nothing. However, a man's home is his castle and people do defend their personal space. Maybe if you can try to help difficult child see this in a mirror image way - "How would you feel if you were in your room and the neighbour came and played ball against the wall of your room at 3 am?" </p><p></p><p>I want to post at more length but I am a bit rushed. I have been where you are now, you need to let this go and realise that your family love you and need you. The neighbours aren't worth fussing about. Anyone who wold act so mean, is not worth trying to please. Instead, be polite, be friendly but don't feel bad if they don't know how to be polite or friendly in return. That is their problem. You set the behaviour example, you also set the example for your family to follow, in how to treat others. Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) people tend to treat others the same way the others treat them. </p><p></p><p>Read "Explosive Child" by Ross Greene. It helps a lot. With difficult child as well as the neighbours. ANd husband.</p><p></p><p>Welcome.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 378622, member: 1991"] There is still a lot you can do for your son. The neighbour shouldn't have yelled. It achieves nothing. However, a man's home is his castle and people do defend their personal space. Maybe if you can try to help difficult child see this in a mirror image way - "How would you feel if you were in your room and the neighbour came and played ball against the wall of your room at 3 am?" I want to post at more length but I am a bit rushed. I have been where you are now, you need to let this go and realise that your family love you and need you. The neighbours aren't worth fussing about. Anyone who wold act so mean, is not worth trying to please. Instead, be polite, be friendly but don't feel bad if they don't know how to be polite or friendly in return. That is their problem. You set the behaviour example, you also set the example for your family to follow, in how to treat others. Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) people tend to treat others the same way the others treat them. Read "Explosive Child" by Ross Greene. It helps a lot. With difficult child as well as the neighbours. ANd husband. Welcome. Marg [/QUOTE]
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