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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 606559" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Thank you ladies!</p><p></p><p>I hope this time is the winner for him. It affects the entire family, but when they reach his age it's more about him. RE, I thought I had changed before, but his relapse snapped me back quite a bit. It was easier to get back to some peace than theearly years, but still difficult and sad.</p><p></p><p>No parent (or loved one) should have a person go no contact, I think it's selfish and cruel. The year did give me the chance to detach and see his life as completely separate from mine. This was also difficult with some of my family members, 'you're the mama, you need to fix it' attitude. </p><p></p><p>I wish he was not in the relationship with the girlfriend from h***, but, I will never have that conversation with him. Detaching does make it so much easier to let them handle their own problems, also their age. </p><p></p><p>Hoping for the best for us all!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 606559, member: 13558"] Thank you ladies! I hope this time is the winner for him. It affects the entire family, but when they reach his age it's more about him. RE, I thought I had changed before, but his relapse snapped me back quite a bit. It was easier to get back to some peace than theearly years, but still difficult and sad. No parent (or loved one) should have a person go no contact, I think it's selfish and cruel. The year did give me the chance to detach and see his life as completely separate from mine. This was also difficult with some of my family members, 'you're the mama, you need to fix it' attitude. I wish he was not in the relationship with the girlfriend from h***, but, I will never have that conversation with him. Detaching does make it so much easier to let them handle their own problems, also their age. Hoping for the best for us all! [/QUOTE]
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